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SENSUALMALE
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Posted on Sun, Jan 19, 2014 08:20

LOVE YOUR COMMENT VERY SMART LADY  BRAIND AND BEAUTY  TAKE CARE LOU


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Posted on Sat, Jan 18, 2014 01:01

Yes, i agree with ideal diamond, its hard to mend a broken piece, once the rope is cut/break and tie it back,  respect, trust is gone, love slowly dissipate in thin air



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Posted on Sat, Jan 18, 2014 00:46

No, hes just himself and cant control of his needs, he will always have perfect excuse , if she put up with him then that is her choice , he might change, or might not change, that is the big questions?


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Posted on Thu, Jan 16, 2014 19:26

Quoting Juju_magic:

that is not totally correct. You should go and ask aged women



What????



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Posted on Thu, Jan 16, 2014 03:47

that is not totally correct. You should go and ask aged women



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Posted on Wed, Jan 15, 2014 07:24

Quoting tivo_fiend:

Lieing is the big problem.  To yourself or to the committed partner.  If someone loves you enough to be in a committed relationship, and you feel for someone else, you should be up front about it.  

"Once a cheater, always a cheater."  -- not always.  Sometimes it's a long-time friend, a guy's drunk, in bad circumstances.  This can sometimes be overcome if the guy is relatively decent, just a once-in-a-lifetime mistake, a learning experience.  "Cheater" in this context is misplaced.  More like an accident.  And yes there are accidents, lots of people that are born are "accidents" although we're not supposed to call it that.

Yes, I agree it's more about the lie than the sex with someone else.  I wish people were free to love whoever they wanted, but people like to be in committed relationship because it feels safer.  Feels, anyway.



"Lieing"... haha,, did you just read a book on Creativity in Spelling.

Cheating is a bell you cannot unring.  I do think,however, that the word itself lends to the confusion.  Cheating at cards, cheating the system.

What do you call a man or woman who makes a commitment and does not honor it? Dishonorable!!

 



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Posted on Wed, Jan 15, 2014 02:13

Lieing is the big problem.  To yourself or to the committed partner.  If someone loves you enough to be in a committed relationship, and you feel for someone else, you should be up front about it.  

"Once a cheater, always a cheater."  -- not always.  Sometimes it's a long-time friend, a guy's drunk, in bad circumstances.  This can sometimes be overcome if the guy is relatively decent, just a once-in-a-lifetime mistake, a learning experience.  "Cheater" in this context is misplaced.  More like an accident.  And yes there are accidents, lots of people that are born are "accidents" although we're not supposed to call it that.

Yes, I agree it's more about the lie than the sex with someone else.  I wish people were free to love whoever they wanted, but people like to be in committed relationship because it feels safer.  Feels, anyway.



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Posted on Tue, Jan 14, 2014 14:47

Quoting Girlygirl2126:

I ended my marriage for this reason in hindsight I honestly think I could have worked it out 



well sometimes once a trust is broken especially in a marriage, its almost impossible to mend. even if you had tried to work it out like you said, the broken trust would probably have made it an unhappy marriage..IMO. Like they say, once a cheater always a cheater.



"Do unto others what you would wish they do unto you" ..~ annonymous

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Posted on Tue, Jan 14, 2014 14:37

I agree!! the lies hurts so much more



"Do unto others what you would wish they do unto you" ..~ annonymous

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Posted on Tue, Jan 14, 2014 12:05

I ended my marriage for this reason in hindsight I honestly think I could have worked it out 



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Posted on Tue, Jan 14, 2014 07:55

The lie is what hurts the most.   Let's say you suspect something, or even worse, find something out, the denial kills all trust and possible chance of working through it.  Trust will be gone if a lie covers a lie.  You will know....You will feel it in your gut.  You know when you are being lied to....especially with someone you love.   If you are not worth him telling you the truth,  thrn you are not a priority.......you are not the "one"   A secret always comes out.....eventually.

Cheating is wrong.  There is no excuse.  If you want to be with someone else (and you aren't in an open relationship where BOTH can be with others)  then get out of the relationship you're in.  Be HONEST.  The truth hurts, yes.  But a lie KILLS. 



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Posted on Tue, Jan 14, 2014 07:34

well.. Thank you Ladies..

Juju_magic.. girl glad you have to stay in that relationship.. staying in a loveless relationship is an emotional torture, I've been there and its not fun



"Do unto others what you would wish they do unto you" ..~ annonymous

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Posted on Mon, Jan 13, 2014 21:31

Well all I can say is " it's all fun and games until someone falls in love or gets knocked up!" Someone's feelings will be hurt! You shouldnt be in a relationship if your gonna cheat unless your both willing to accept that and have an " open relationship".

I wanted to add one more thing to everyone's understanding MALE vs FEMALE. Men were built to reproduce their entire lives. Therefore a man's urge to plant seeds is for a life time. As for women we are only built to reproduce up until menopause. Women naturally lose the desire for sex.

~~~ Just my 2cents of feed back.

 

 



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Posted on Mon, Jan 13, 2014 17:19

so true Dekan. And I have to admid, I cheated once. I knew that was because Love was gone. I even told him. it was an on off story, He killed it with words, everytime I ve told him what my need were. So get is what u deserve - is what I told him. But I always told myself I d end it before something like this happens. At least I did not searhc v´for excuses. I just didnt love that guy I ran after and waited for 3 years....But, i have to say, this was the best way to get out of this, to overcome that relation ship, to realise there was nothing left but disrespect - as sad as it might sound...



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Posted on Mon, Jan 13, 2014 14:48

There are none if you're in a relationship. If you feel that you need to cheat then it's time to get out.



Government's first duty is to protect the people, not run their lives. President Ronald Reagan

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