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Posted on Sun, Feb 02, 2014 22:58

Recently I watch some romantic movies in order to get some inspiration or tips on True Love. Not every romance has a happy ending, which poses a good question to the viewers and help them to think about it.   Besides some insights of romance, what impressed me most is a girl over 20s who had sex with 50 men since age 12( in other movies the popular statistics are 20~30). I was shocked. I can't imagine it from my poor experiences of sex(my first time was in 20s, the same guy until we broke up.)    So suddenly I felt a twinge of envy for her. Wow, she enjoyed so much! Should I go to night club to have some fun or try dating many guys? I was confused at that moment.    In the following two days, I kept thinking What I'm Searching? Then I'm coolheaded, it's Love not Sex (Of course, love brings you to bed). I'm quite sure I don't like have sex with a stranger or different guys. I can't bear it. It's not my taste.   Now I'm calm and peaceful, as I know myself better than ever, and I don't envy her any more.


Life is a piece of dance. You need to find the right partner to make it beautiful.

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Posted on Fri, Feb 14, 2014 22:43

Thanks. Maybe you're right.

Action speaks louder than words.

I posted two photos.



Life is a piece of dance. You need to find the right partner to make it beautiful.

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Posted on Mon, Feb 10, 2014 11:49

Quoting Gracelle:

Today I deleted my photos, as I promised to focus on talking to one gentleman.

Hope it works.


That really wasn't necessary.  It takes quite a while to get to know someone well enough to commit to an exclusive, monogamous relationship.  It's best to not get ahead of yourself and wise to concentrate on quality over quantity.



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Posted on Sun, Feb 09, 2014 23:04

Today I deleted my photos, as I promised to focus on talking to one gentleman.

Hope it works.



Life is a piece of dance. You need to find the right partner to make it beautiful.

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Posted on Fri, Feb 07, 2014 03:48

Thanks, 3345roc.

 

Maybe you're right, in most cases.

 

 



Life is a piece of dance. You need to find the right partner to make it beautiful.

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Posted on Wed, Feb 05, 2014 19:18

In an intimate relationship love and sex are inextricably entwined.  It's symbiotic.  Men offer women love in exchange for sex and women offer men sex in exchange for love... sometimes it works out.



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Posted on Wed, Feb 05, 2014 18:40

Good posts everyone! I guess each to their own and what they are in search of.....



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Posted on Tue, Feb 04, 2014 14:12

Quoting Gracelle:

Thanks, NiceEyes. You're so right. I shall not " in a mad tearing rush to" it, haha.  As to passion, I focused on hobbies: travel, painting, dancing etc. Due to the rumor no guys tried to approach me in the past 4 years. Now I'm ready for romance. Thank God, I look kind of 27or 28, haha.


A Pleasure Gracelle, it well happen when you least expect it, you already have taken the first steps now, just be vigilant and selective on your journey.

 

The very best to you



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Posted on Mon, Feb 03, 2014 23:41

Thanks, Dakota35.

Yes, we choose life paths by ourselves.



Life is a piece of dance. You need to find the right partner to make it beautiful.

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Posted on Mon, Feb 03, 2014 23:40

Thanks, LadyMJ2014. My inner tigress hasn't waken up yet, haha. I was a book nerd at that time, the 1st guy inexperienced too. He studied hard and health condition not so well for a while. Perhaps that's why he misunderstood me. He was wrong. I was a girl not yet tempted by sexual pleasure. But I didn't forgive him.   Now I watch romantic movies and learn some tips, haha.

 



Life is a piece of dance. You need to find the right partner to make it beautiful.

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Posted on Mon, Feb 03, 2014 23:39

Thanks, extraheart.

It's better to be sober when dating someone? Or not rush to have sex until know him well?



Life is a piece of dance. You need to find the right partner to make it beautiful.

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Posted on Mon, Feb 03, 2014 23:36

Thanks, NiceEyes. You're so right. I shall not " in a mad tearing rush to" it, haha.  As to passion, I focused on hobbies: travel, painting, dancing etc. Due to the rumor no guys tried to approach me in the past 4 years. Now I'm ready for romance. Thank God, I look kind of 27or 28, haha.


Life is a piece of dance. You need to find the right partner to make it beautiful.

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Posted on Mon, Feb 03, 2014 22:09

Quoting Dakota35:

It's your decision...you can either be a nice girl searching for one love...or a bed hopping whore searching for a orgasm and STD.


I sure hope someone is bringing the popcorn!



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Posted on Mon, Feb 03, 2014 20:06

Quoting extraheart:

you need to kiss the frogs to find the prince lol, haha.........Some women are lucky, they bump into the right guy the first time they climb into a bed with one, some are not that lucky, it's better you run before worse things happen, believe me, heart breakng is a mild case with real bad guys, do you read murder stories?



She's not talking about kissing frogs, she's talking about having sex with them. :)



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Posted on Mon, Feb 03, 2014 10:05

It's your decision...you can either be a nice girl searching for one love...or a bed hopping whore searching for a orgasm and STD.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 03, 2014 06:42

I personally don't think that the amount of sexual partners a man/woman have had is important. If you are inexperienced that should not matter to anyone. You can learn what you don't know and the perfect partner will bring out your inner tigress/tiger. :)



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Posted on Sun, Feb 02, 2014 23:55

Maintaining celibacy for such an extended time  Gracelle where you have engaged in your other passions and now finally prepared yourself to enter the love triangle again would be a true shock to your system,  the world on a moral footing has gone through many a change, what once was not regarded as the norm in society is now common place in many respects.

 

You have to follow your own heart,feelings, your search for a soulmate sooner or later well become your reality, we consciously think with our minds, but we are subconsciously a product of our very environment and upbringing.

 

Now you have decided on your quest, don't be in a mad tearing rush to find what you perceive as a true love, when the chemistry is present, you well know, never envy others sexual or sensual encounters, we are all uniqe in our own skins, when the timing is right your heart well then delight forming that bond that well nurture into the love you long for.

 

Just maintain your health so when it happens you can enjoy your lives as a couple in bliss.

 

 



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