I gotta ask...WHY would a 65 year old man be looking for an 18 year old?

I see many profiles of men looking for women 2-3+ times younger than them. Wanting

them to be 18 or 21.

Am I CRAZY or does anyone else wonder what a 'mature man' (written sarcastically) wants

with a little girl, just out of (or still in) high school.

At my age I wouldn't even consider being with a 'man' (again sarcastic) 18 years old.

I want a man who can hold an intelectual conversation, share life experiences, has a career, a

home (not with their parents) and is incredibly independent (mentally & financially).

An 18 year old ??? I just don't get it.

What would we have in common? Dress (style of clothing), music, travel, physical activities (I guess other than sex Ha!) They wouldn't even be able to go out for an adult beverage.

When I was 18 I thought anyone who was in there mid to late 20's were OLD !

What do you Ladies think ?

AND how many winks & emails do you receive from men wayyyy older than

youself (only to think.. NOT... then delete).

HONESTLY, do we really want to go out with someone who is older than our own fathers?

Any Thoughts?

 Repeat Whoop Whoop for Purging The Pink !!

I gotta ask...WHY would a 65 year old man be looking for an 18 year old?

I see many profiles of men looking for women 2-3+ times younger than them. Wanting

them to be 18 or 21.

Am I CRAZY or does anyone else wonder what a 'mature man' (written sarcastically) wants

with a little girl, just out of (or still in) high school.

At my age I wouldn't even consider being with a 'man' (again sarcastic) 18 years old.

I want a man who can hold an intelectual conversation, share life experiences, has a career, a

home (not with their parents) and is incredibly independent (mentally & financially).

An 18 year old ??? I just don't get it.

What would we have in common? Dress (style of clothing), music, travel, physical activities (I guess other than sex Ha!) They wouldn't even be able to go out for an adult beverage.

When I was 18 I thought anyone who was in there mid to late 20's were OLD !

What do you Ladies think ?

AND how many winks & emails do you receive from men wayyyy older than

youself (only to think.. NOT... then delete).

HONESTLY, do we really want to go out with someone who is older than our own fathers?

Any Thoughts?

 Repeat Whoop Whoop for Purging The Pink !!

 I am divorced 7 years now, and have hired professional search firms, went on the leading web sites of  matchmakers, attended mix and match events, and I am no slouch at making conversation with women in the supermarket, or walking past my house.

I was 50 when I started this search. In the meantime, I was coming in contact with young women, as I had a few 20 year old students who wanted to learn to sing in my recording studio, others wanted to be models ,and as a photographer I quite enjoyed developing models who gradually took off more and more clothing, and I ended up with so many excellent and tasteful art photos. And as this gained momentum ,both the model trainees, and the vocal trainees ,refered and brought more 20 something friends. Women intheir 20s are open to dating, and partying, and having sex with fit, rich, and charming guys in their fifties.The thing that has become an expectation of young women dating older men....is that they should be paid. Some young women, who are in college or university, see no problem with finding a few men and telling them the same story, such as I need first and last month's rent for my dorm. And many are from good families, who have no idea their 19 year old daughter is actually prostituting her body for tuition, and is therefore a prostitute, but gets enraged if called that.

And then there are the women in a more age appropriate bracket of the forties to fifties. This is entering the danger zone for the husband, because as his wife starts to think deeply about her own personal financial security, they tend to want asset transfers from the husband , who on average has been the larger earner, and spent many more years in the work force. Then regular arguments ensue about the value of staying home with one or two children, while tens of thousands of mothers juggle work and kids.The mid-late forties, as the womens' hormones lead into menopuse , while in many cases still having monthly periods...this is prime time for divorces, and middle aged women 45-60 that become single, are not that happy, think they got screwed in the divorce, have less money to support a residence and themselves, and are generally distrustful of men in general. So when a 60 year old married female friend  of mine, says in a critical way, sort of implying there is something wrong with me...."Jon, why are you hanging around with, and dating, 25 to thirty year-old women? There are so many nice divorced 55-60 year old women ". My phone rings and provides the perfect opportunity to smilingly excuse myself, and make my exit. jc. July 2, 2014.

 I am divorced 7 years now, and have hired professional search firms, went on the leading web sites of  matchmakers, attended mix and match events, and I am no slouch at making conversation with women in the supermarket, or walking past my house.

I was 50 when I started this search. In the meantime, I was coming in contact with young women, as I had a few 20 year old students who wanted to learn to sing in my recording studio, others wanted to be models ,and as a photographer I quite enjoyed developing models who gradually took off more and more clothing, and I ended up with so many excellent and tasteful art photos. And as this gained momentum ,both the model trainees, and the vocal trainees ,refered and brought more 20 something friends. Women intheir 20s are open to dating, and partying, and having sex with fit, rich, and charming guys in their fifties.The thing that has become an expectation of young women dating older men....is that they should be paid. Some young women, who are in college or university, see no problem with finding a few men and telling them the same story, such as I need first and last month's rent for my dorm. And many are from good families, who have no idea their 19 year old daughter is actually prostituting her body for tuition, and is therefore a prostitute, but gets enraged if called that.

And then there are the women in a more age appropriate bracket of the forties to fifties. This is entering the danger zone for the husband, because as his wife starts to think deeply about her own personal financial security, they tend to want asset transfers from the husband , who on average has been the larger earner, and spent many more years in the work force. Then regular arguments ensue about the value of staying home with one or two children, while tens of thousands of mothers juggle work and kids.The mid-late forties, as the womens' hormones lead into menopuse , while in many cases still having monthly periods...this is prime time for divorces, and middle aged women 45-60 that become single, are not that happy, think they got screwed in the divorce, have less money to support a residence and themselves, and are generally distrustful of men in general. So when a 60 year old married female friend  of mine, says in a critical way, sort of implying there is something wrong with me...."Jon, why are you hanging around with, and dating, 25 to thirty year-old women? There are so many nice divorced 55-60 year old women ". My phone rings and provides the perfect opportunity to smilingly excuse myself, and make my exit. jc. July 2, 2014.

When I saw that pic your abductors posted of you ice skating I immediately got in my car and headed North.  I was certain you were abducted by Canadian terrorists.  

Then they posted the one of you sitting by a pool so I headed South.  Do you know where you are?  The search parties are running around in circles looking for terrorists with smiles in their faces as I'm certain you're keeping them entertained... and nothing stands out like a smiling terrorist.

Hope we find you before Christmas...

WTF is this??????

Damn....Sorry,Roc...http://youtu.be/WwRrKaq0IyY...Oh...Lookie There!....LAMAAAOLMAO!

The plot thicken's.........2.6 grand.....

My hands are bound, my hostages are writing this after torturing me for my password. 

They said $2,599.99 in cash was needed to release me. The money is to be thrown over

my fence & into my front yard. No police or Nance get deleted permanently. 

Weird situation. 

AAh! Incognito! Such are Sag's....Never know where she will turn up from the deep...

"Carlene"

AAh! Incognito! Such are Sag's....Never know where she will turn up from the deep...

"Carlene"

Okay... who are you and what have you done with Nance?  Do you think we wouldn't notice that you took all of her sexy pictures and bikini shots down... and even her car picture, her little blue car... how sick are you?  You replaced them with a rose... a rose... really???  What are we supposed to do with a picture of a rose in the privacy of our own homes... have you no conscience.????

You also changed her preference in men and it now reads from 25 to 99.  We know she thinks everyone man over 57 should reside in a nursing home and now every pervert over 60 will be winking at her.  You're a sicko!!!  

Return her to us unharmed and we promise we won't prosecute you.... but you might seriously want to consider a mental health evaluation.

Okay... who are you and what have you done with Nance?  Do you think we wouldn't notice that you took all of her sexy pictures and bikini shots down... and even her car picture, her little blue car... how sick are you?  You replaced them with a rose... a rose... really???  What are we supposed to do with a picture of a rose in the privacy of our own homes... have you no conscience.????

You also changed her preference in men and it now reads from 25 to 99.  We know she thinks everyone man over 57 should reside in a nursing home and now every pervert over 60 will be winking at her.  You're a sicko!!!  

Return her to us unharmed and we promise we won't prosecute you.... but you might seriously want to consider a mental health evaluation.

I worry about the BFF's...Sit with them,a few times....100 deadly questions! Sheese!

She's fishin',Roc!

tuning: standard
   G                   C     D         A7
E------3---------0---------0-----2----------|
B------------------------------2-------2----|
G----0---------0---------0------------------|
D----------------------------0-----4-3-2----|
A--------0-1-2-----0-0h3--------------------|
E--3----------------------------------------|

       G         G/B   C      
Well I love her,       but I love to fish
  D
I spend all day out on this lake
    G             D
And hell is all I catch
    G                G/B
But today she met me at the door
     C               A7
Said I would have to choose
     G        G/F#    Em
If I hit that fishin' hole today
G        G/F#    Em    
She'd be packin' all her things
    C        A7      D  
And she'd be gone by noon

Chorus:
               C                    G
Well I'm gonna miss her, when I get home
          D
But right now I'm on this lakeshore
        G              G7
And I'm sittin' in the sun
               C
I'm sure it'll hit me
       G                 G/F# E7
When I walk through that door tonight
               C
That I'm gonna miss her
           D                 G
Oh, lookie there, I've got a bite


Bridge:
    B               Em
Now there's a chance that if I hurry
A7      D          G    (walk up notes G-A-Bb-B)
I could beg her to stay
B                              Em 
But that water's right and the weather's perfect
   A7                   D
No tellin' what I might catch today

Repeat Chorus

Human history made a frame for the roles of males and females. Especially in many classic plays, males' wealth and social scale are always matched with females' youngth and beauty. 

Schools use these plays for teaching materials or literatures;  movie directors use them to earn profit. When a male has been exposed under those information and involuntarily absorbing them since he was little, it is not suprise that in the future he will trend to choose his romance following the frame: $ = youngth + beauty

It is really hard to correct this thousands years view and it is really unfair, because a 80 years old female may never find love any more -- few males can live to 120 years old.

Believe it or not, at my age I'm experiencing the same thing, 30 year olds.  At this point in life forever doesn't seem like a very long time so I try to be open to all possibilities.  Naturally you have to cull out the gold diggers.

Folks this is a cultural thing.  Nurture...not nature.  My grandmother married a 40 year old man when she was 18.  That is the way the culture worked back then, you married a man that had already made his way in the world...not one just starting out.  People considered this a success....18 year old snags 40 year old successful man.  No problem back then in fact it was a prized goal.

For me I find the older women seem more demanding than the younger ones.  I am 55 yet have a 32 year old woman pursuing me while women my age seem to turn up their noses alot.  I don't get that.  Yet still I can sense that this gal is just too young for me, there is something to be said for life experience. 

Finally...there is a direct correlation between women becoming financially independent and the divorce rate.  The chart from the 60's to today is obvious.  Divorces went up when women did not have to financially depend on the man anymore.  Makes perfect sense.

Folks this is a cultural thing.  Nurture...not nature.  My grandmother married a 40 year old man when she was 18.  That is the way the culture worked back then, you married a man that had already made his way in the world...not one just starting out.  People considered this a success....18 year old snags 40 year old successful man.  No problem back then in fact it was a prized goal.

For me I find the older women seem more demanding than the younger ones.  I am 55 yet have a 32 year old woman pursuing me while women my age seem to turn up their noses alot.  I don't get that.  Yet still I can sense that this gal is just too young for me, there is something to be said for life experience. 

Finally...there is a direct correlation between women becoming financially independent and the divorce rate.  The chart from the 60's to today is obvious.  Divorces went up when women did not have to financially depend on the man anymore.  Makes perfect sense.

Man (average man) are visual creatures.  They are 90% in what they see.

Yet, there is a 10% man out there (me (:  that we do not care that much about just looks.  We want intelectual and spritiaul stimulation.  Keep looking. A good man/woman takes a lot of work to be found!  Yet, once found, all the hard hard work over the years pay off 100 fold!!!!

Hard work is the key to succed at any thing! (:

  The Love Virtuoso

Man (average man) are visual creatures.  They are 90% in what they see.

Yet, there is a 10% man out there (me (:  that we do not care that much about just looks.  We want intelectual and spritiaul stimulation.  Keep looking. A good man/woman takes a lot of work to be found!  Yet, once found, all the hard hard work over the years pay off 100 fold!!!!

Hard work is the key to succed at any thing! (:

  The Love Virtuoso

Quoating myself... I now stand fully corrected when I say a 30 year old would not do anything for me.

I have read the profile of a 32 year old and was incredibly impressed. Please excuse me while I pull my foot (make that both feet) out of my mouth... Maybe age IS just a number.

When live throws you a curve ball... Just catch it baby...center of the glove !

Feet in Mouth, Nance

Lol this is funny. True in deed. I think age difference has a number of factors. In the end an older man with experience knows how to make a female feel like a woman he just knows what button to push. He knows when to be a man and stand up to her and he knows when to give in and treat her sweetly. They just have that balance.

This is definitely not true. I have a very well developed masculine side. I actually likeolder men because their level of masculinity brings me back to traditional gender roles and from an emotional standpoint that is my preference. Men like to feel like men and taking the lead and having a younger woman does that. So that Theory is totally off the wall. History actually determines the gender role theory, that middle of the road theory is a bunch of bs 

Hmmm.....I think these kind of men yearn for their gone-by youth and think they can reclaim some of those feelings by getting a 'baby mama'.  To each his own and I wish them well.  Hopefully when they write that check every month they will think the screwing they got.....was worth the screwing they got.  :))  *wink*

Hmmm.....I think these kind of men yearn for their gone-by youth and think they can reclaim some of those feelings by getting a 'baby mama'.  To each his own and I wish them well.  Hopefully when they write that check every month they will think the screwing they got.....was worth the screwing they got.  :))  *wink*

Is it possible you might be overthinking the issue?  Men are very simple beings that exist in a few defined states.. hungry, horny or tired.  A smart women who is able to figure out where her man is at ,and take the appropriate action, will have him eating out of her hand.  He'll even go shopping with her if she's good at it.

Men also have rather fragile egos so thinking that a young beautiful women is physically attracted to him is affirming.  I've had a few May-September relationships and they were all initiated by the younger woman, so I can't speak to the reason some old guys seek out young women.  I forwarded your anaysis to Donald Sterling and his reply was less than stellar "shove your anima up your b*tt".  I think he misunderstood anima.

Looking back on those that occured in my 40's and 50's those young women had daddy issues.... either abandonment or abuse or love/hate.  At my current age it certainly is stability and security, financial or otherwise.  They also claim that the men their age are very immature or lack commitment.  They say that they're looking for someone just like their dad.  What can I say... try to be more like your mom. 

That's why I'm working very hard to stay immature!