I gotta ask...WHY would a 65 year old man be looking for an 18 year old?
I see many profiles of men looking for women 2-3+ times younger than them. Wanting
them to be 18 or 21.
Am I CRAZY or does anyone else wonder what a 'mature man' (written sarcastically) wants
with a little girl, just out of (or still in) high school.
At my age I wouldn't even consider being with a 'man' (again sarcastic) 18 years old.
I want a man who can hold an intelectual conversation, share life experiences, has a career, a
home (not with their parents) and is incredibly independent (mentally & financially).
An 18 year old ??? I just don't get it.
What would we have in common? Dress (style of clothing), music, travel, physical activities (I guess other than sex Ha!) They wouldn't even be able to go out for an adult beverage.
When I was 18 I thought anyone who was in there mid to late 20's were OLD !
What do you Ladies think ?
AND how many winks & emails do you receive from men wayyyy older than
youself (only to think.. NOT... then delete).
HONESTLY, do we really want to go out with someone who is older than our own fathers?
Any Thoughts?
Repeat Whoop Whoop for Purging The Pink !!
I gotta ask...WHY would a 65 year old man be looking for an 18 year old?
I see many profiles of men looking for women 2-3+ times younger than them. Wanting
them to be 18 or 21.
Am I CRAZY or does anyone else wonder what a 'mature man' (written sarcastically) wants
with a little girl, just out of (or still in) high school.
At my age I wouldn't even consider being with a 'man' (again sarcastic) 18 years old.
I want a man who can hold an intelectual conversation, share life experiences, has a career, a
home (not with their parents) and is incredibly independent (mentally & financially).
An 18 year old ??? I just don't get it.
What would we have in common? Dress (style of clothing), music, travel, physical activities (I guess other than sex Ha!) They wouldn't even be able to go out for an adult beverage.
When I was 18 I thought anyone who was in there mid to late 20's were OLD !
What do you Ladies think ?
AND how many winks & emails do you receive from men wayyyy older than
youself (only to think.. NOT... then delete).
HONESTLY, do we really want to go out with someone who is older than our own fathers?
He wondered how she'd take it when he said goodbye.
Thought she might do some cryin'... lose some sleep at night. But he had no idea, when he hit the road, That without him in her life, she'd let herself go.
Let herself go on a singles cruise, To Vegas once, then to Honolulu. Let herself go to New York City... A week at the Spa; came back knocked-out pretty. When he said he didn't love her no more, She let herself go.
[Instrumental break]
She poured her heart an' soul into their three-bedroom ranch. Spent her days raisin' babies, ironin' his pants. Came home one day from the grocery store and found his note, And without him there to stop her, she let herself go.
Let herself go on her first blind-date... Had the time of her life with some friends at the lake. Let herself go, buy a brand new car, Drove down to the beach he always said was too far. Sand sure felt good between her toes...
She let herself go on a singles cruise, To Vegas once, then to Honolulu. Let herself go to New York City... A week at the Spa; came back knocked-out pretty. When he said he didn't love her no more, She let herself go.
To Vegas once...
Honolulu...
New York City...
Came back knock-out Pretty...
{Fade}
#WHERRUNOW
https://youtu.be/ODHCwsJkElo?list=RDODHCwsJkElo
He wondered how she'd take it when he said goodbye.
Thought she might do some cryin'... lose some sleep at night. But he had no idea, when he hit the road, That without him in her life, she'd let herself go.
Let herself go on a singles cruise, To Vegas once, then to Honolulu. Let herself go to New York City... A week at the Spa; came back knocked-out pretty. When he said he didn't love her no more, She let herself go.
[Instrumental break]
She poured her heart an' soul into their three-bedroom ranch. Spent her days raisin' babies, ironin' his pants. Came home one day from the grocery store and found his note, And without him there to stop her, she let herself go.
Let herself go on her first blind-date... Had the time of her life with some friends at the lake. Let herself go, buy a brand new car, Drove down to the beach he always said was too far. Sand sure felt good between her toes...
She let herself go on a singles cruise, To Vegas once, then to Honolulu. Let herself go to New York City... A week at the Spa; came back knocked-out pretty. When he said he didn't love her no more, She let herself go.
I am divorced 7 years now, and have hired professional search firms, went on the leading web sites of matchmakers, attended mix and match events, and I am no slouch at making conversation with women in the supermarket, or walking past my house.
I was 50 when I started this search. In the meantime, I was coming in contact with young women, as I had a few 20 year old students who wanted to learn to sing in my recording studio, others wanted to be models ,and as a photographer I quite enjoyed developing models who gradually took off more and more clothing, and I ended up with so many excellent and tasteful art photos. And as this gained momentum ,both the model trainees, and the vocal trainees ,refered and brought more 20 something friends. Women intheir 20s are open to dating, and partying, and having sex with fit, rich, and charming guys in their fifties.The thing that has become an expectation of young women dating older men....is that they should be paid. Some young women, who are in college or university, see no problem with finding a few men and telling them the same story, such as I need first and last month's rent for my dorm. And many are from good families, who have no idea their 19 year old daughter is actually prostituting her body for tuition, and is therefore a prostitute, but gets enraged if called that.
And then there are the women in a more age appropriate bracket of the forties to fifties. This is entering the danger zone for the husband, because as his wife starts to think deeply about her own personal financial security, they tend to want asset transfers from the husband , who on average has been the larger earner, and spent many more years in the work force. Then regular arguments ensue about the value of staying home with one or two children, while tens of thousands of mothers juggle work and kids.The mid-late forties, as the womens' hormones lead into menopuse , while in many cases still having monthly periods...this is prime time for divorces, and middle aged women 45-60 that become single, are not that happy, think they got screwed in the divorce, have less money to support a residence and themselves, and are generally distrustful of men in general. So when a 60 year old married female friend of mine, says in a critical way, sort of implying there is something wrong with me...."Jon, why are you hanging around with, and dating, 25 to thirty year-old women? There are so many nice divorced 55-60 year old women ". My phone rings and provides the perfect opportunity to smilingly excuse myself, and make my exit. jc. July 2, 2014.
I am divorced 7 years now, and have hired professional search firms, went on the leading web sites of matchmakers, attended mix and match events, and I am no slouch at making conversation with women in the supermarket, or walking past my house.
I was 50 when I started this search. In the meantime, I was coming in contact with young women, as I had a few 20 year old students who wanted to learn to sing in my recording studio, others wanted to be models ,and as a photographer I quite enjoyed developing models who gradually took off more and more clothing, and I ended up with so many excellent and tasteful art photos. And as this gained momentum ,both the model trainees, and the vocal trainees ,refered and brought more 20 something friends. Women intheir 20s are open to dating, and partying, and having sex with fit, rich, and charming guys in their fifties.The thing that has become an expectation of young women dating older men....is that they should be paid. Some young women, who are in college or university, see no problem with finding a few men and telling them the same story, such as I need first and last month's rent for my dorm. And many are from good families, who have no idea their 19 year old daughter is actually prostituting her body for tuition, and is therefore a prostitute, but gets enraged if called that.
And then there are the women in a more age appropriate bracket of the forties to fifties. This is entering the danger zone for the husband, because as his wife starts to think deeply about her own personal financial security, they tend to want asset transfers from the husband , who on average has been the larger earner, and spent many more years in the work force. Then regular arguments ensue about the value of staying home with one or two children, while tens of thousands of mothers juggle work and kids.The mid-late forties, as the womens' hormones lead into menopuse , while in many cases still having monthly periods...this is prime time for divorces, and middle aged women 45-60 that become single, are not that happy, think they got screwed in the divorce, have less money to support a residence and themselves, and are generally distrustful of men in general. So when a 60 year old married female friend of mine, says in a critical way, sort of implying there is something wrong with me...."Jon, why are you hanging around with, and dating, 25 to thirty year-old women? There are so many nice divorced 55-60 year old women ". My phone rings and provides the perfect opportunity to smilingly excuse myself, and make my exit. jc. July 2, 2014.
Okay... who are you and what have you done with Nance? Do you think we wouldn't notice that you took all of her sexy pictures and bikini shots down... and even her car picture, her little blue car... how sick are you? You replaced them with a rose... a rose... really??? What are we supposed to do with a picture of a rose in the privacy of our own homes... have you no conscience.????
You also changed her preference in men and it now reads from 25 to 99. We know she thinks everyone man over 57 should reside in a nursing home and now every pervert over 60 will be winking at her. You're a sicko!!!
Return her to us unharmed and we promise we won't prosecute you.... but you might seriously want to consider a mental health evaluation.
Okay... who are you and what have you done with Nance? Do you think we wouldn't notice that you took all of her sexy pictures and bikini shots down... and even her car picture, her little blue car... how sick are you? You replaced them with a rose... a rose... really??? What are we supposed to do with a picture of a rose in the privacy of our own homes... have you no conscience.????
You also changed her preference in men and it now reads from 25 to 99. We know she thinks everyone man over 57 should reside in a nursing home and now every pervert over 60 will be winking at her. You're a sicko!!!
Return her to us unharmed and we promise we won't prosecute you.... but you might seriously want to consider a mental health evaluation.
My hands are bound, my hostages are writing this after torturing me for my password.
They said $2,599.99 in cash was needed to release me. The money is to be thrown over
my fence & into my front yard. No police or Nance get deleted permanently.
Weird situation.
Quoting 3345roc:
Okay... who are you and what have you done with Nance? Do you think we wouldn't notice that you took all of her sexy pictures and bikini shots down... and even her car picture, her little blue car... how sick are you? You replaced them with a rose... a rose... really??? What are we supposed to do with a picture of a rose in the privacy of our own homes... have you no conscience.????
You also changed her preference in men and it now reads from 25 to 99. We know she thinks everyone man over 57 should reside in a nursing home and now every pervert over 60 will be winking at her. You're a sicko!!!
Return her to us unharmed and we promise we won't prosecute you.... but you might seriously want to consider a mental health evaluation.
Quoting 3345roc:
Okay... who are you and what have you done with Nance? Do you think we wouldn't notice that you took all of her sexy pictures and bikini shots down... and even her car picture, her little blue car... how sick are you? You replaced them with a rose... a rose... really??? What are we supposed to do with a picture of a rose in the privacy of our own homes... have you no conscience.????
You also changed her preference in men and it now reads from 25 to 99. We know she thinks everyone man over 57 should reside in a nursing home and now every pervert over 60 will be winking at her. You're a sicko!!!
Return her to us unharmed and we promise we won't prosecute you.... but you might seriously want to consider a mental health evaluation.
My hands are bound, my hostages are writing this after torturing me for my password.
They said $2,599.99 in cash was needed to release me. The money is to be thrown over
my fence & into my front yard. No police or Nance get deleted permanently.
AAh! Incognito! Such are Sag's....Never know where she will turn up from the deep...
"Carlene"
I was lousy at math, failed historian Carlene was the valedictorian I was the quarter back in the back of classes She was the whiz kid in horned rim glasses
It's been a long time since I've been around Since I stepped foot on my old stomping ground I ended up by the old school yard When this red head pulled up in a blue sports car She said, "I bet you don't remember, I guess it's been forever." It took a second to put it all together and I said.
Ooh la la la la la Looking good Carlene Woh my my my my my Times been good to you If you know what I mean Girl you glitter like hollywood Good god carlene You sure are lookin good
She said hop in let's go for a spin Tell me whatcha been doing boy and where you been I said I write songs, you probably didn't know, but I finally got a couple out on country radio She said, "What a switch, ain't life funny, I've got a PHD, now I'm modeling for money." Imagine little miss 4.0 just smiling for the camera on the cover of Vogue I said you've come a long way since graduation Let me say without hesitation You've surpassed everyone's expectations
Ooh la la la la la Looking good Carlene Woh my my my my my Times been good to you If you know what I mean Girl you glitter like hollywood Good god carlene You sure are lookin good
I said I hope to see you again someday She said another ten years is too long to wait Pick me up at my Momma's at eight!
And I said.
Ooh la la la la la Looking good Carlene Woh my my my my my Times been good to you If you know what I mean Ooh la la la la la Looking good Carlene Woh my my my my my Times been good to you If you know what I mean Ooh la la la la la Looking good Carlene Woh my my my my my Times been good to you If you know what I mean
http://youtu.be/PZlaCR0eT5E
AAh! Incognito! Such are Sag's....Never know where she will turn up from the deep...
"Carlene"
I was lousy at math, failed historian
Carlene was the valedictorian
I was the quarter back in the back of classes
She was the whiz kid in horned rim glasses
It's been a long time since I've been around
Since I stepped foot on my old stomping ground
I ended up by the old school yard
When this red head pulled up in a blue sports car
She said, "I bet you don't remember, I guess it's been forever."
It took a second to put it all together and I said.
Ooh la la la la la
Looking good Carlene
Woh my my my my my
Times been good to you
If you know what I mean
Girl you glitter like hollywood
Good god carlene
You sure are lookin good
She said hop in let's go for a spin
Tell me whatcha been doing boy and where you been
I said I write songs, you probably didn't know, but I
finally got a couple out on country radio
She said, "What a switch, ain't life funny, I've got a PHD,
now I'm modeling for money."
Imagine little miss 4.0 just smiling for the camera on the cover of Vogue
I said you've come a long way since graduation
Let me say without hesitation
You've surpassed everyone's expectations
Ooh la la la la la
Looking good Carlene
Woh my my my my my
Times been good to you
If you know what I mean
Girl you glitter like hollywood
Good god carlene
You sure are lookin good
I said I hope to see you again someday
She said another ten years is too long to wait
Pick me up at my Momma's at eight!
And I said.
Ooh la la la la la
Looking good Carlene
Woh my my my my my
Times been good to you
If you know what I mean
Ooh la la la la la
Looking good Carlene
Woh my my my my my
Times been good to you
If you know what I mean
Ooh la la la la la
Looking good Carlene
Woh my my my my my
Times been good to you
If you know what I mean http://youtu.be/PZlaCR0eT5E
Hmmm. Just a thought... What if her father & you all sat down for dinner... What would you guys talk about?
...Her Father says "last year in high school my daughter _____" You say " on our date last week your daughter
_____ ... Now, fill in the blanks. Sorry, but the image of that makes me laugh. BUT... That's just my opinion.
I worry about the BFF's...Sit with them,a few times....100 deadly questions! Sheese!
She's fishin',Roc!
tuning: standard
GCDA7
E------3---------0---------0-----2----------|
B------------------------------2-------2----|
G----0---------0---------0------------------|
D----------------------------0-----4-3-2----|
A--------0-1-2-----0-0h3--------------------|
E--3----------------------------------------|
GG/BC
Well I love her, but I love to fish
D
I spend all day out on this lake
GD
And hell is all I catch
GG/B
But today she met me at the door
CA7
Said I would have to choose
GG/F#Em
If I hit that fishin' hole today
GG/F#Em
She'd be packin' all her things
CA7D
And she'd be gone by noon
Chorus:
CG
Well I'm gonna miss her, when I get home
D
But right now I'm on this lakeshore
GG7
And I'm sittin' in the sun
C
I'm sure it'll hit me
GG/F#E7
When I walk through that door tonight
C
That I'm gonna miss her
DG
Oh, lookie there, I've got a bite
Bridge:
BEm
Now there's a chance that if I hurry
A7DG (walk up notes G-A-Bb-B)
I could beg her to stay
BEm
But that water's right and the weather's perfect
A7D
No tellin' what I might catch today
Repeat Chorus
Quoting GoNancyGo:
Hmmm. Just a thought... What if her father & you all sat down for dinner... What would you guys talk about?
...Her Father says "last year in high school my daughter _____" You say " on our date last week your daughter
_____ ... Now, fill in the blanks. Sorry, but the image of that makes me laugh. BUT... That's just my opinion.
I worry about the BFF's...Sit with them,a few times....100 deadly questions! Sheese!
She's fishin',Roc!
tuning: standard
GCDA7
E------3---------0---------0-----2----------|
B------------------------------2-------2----|
G----0---------0---------0------------------|
D----------------------------0-----4-3-2----|
A--------0-1-2-----0-0h3--------------------|
E--3----------------------------------------|
GG/BC
Well I love her, but I love to fish
D
I spend all day out on this lake
GD
And hell is all I catch
GG/B
But today she met me at the door
CA7
Said I would have to choose
GG/F#Em
If I hit that fishin' hole today
GG/F#Em
She'd be packin' all her things
CA7D
And she'd be gone by noon
Chorus:
CG
Well I'm gonna miss her, when I get home
D
But right now I'm on this lakeshore
GG7
And I'm sittin' in the sun
C
I'm sure it'll hit me
GG/F#E7
When I walk through that door tonight
C
That I'm gonna miss her
DG
Oh, lookie there, I've got a bite
Bridge:
BEm
Now there's a chance that if I hurry
A7DG (walk up notes G-A-Bb-B)
I could beg her to stay
BEm
But that water's right and the weather's perfect
A7D
No tellin' what I might catch today
Repeat Chorus
I gotta ask...WHY would a 65 year old man be looking for an 18 year old?
I see many profiles of men looking for women 2-3+ times younger than them. Wanting
them to be 18 or 21.
Am I CRAZY or does anyone else wonder what a 'mature man' (written sarcastically) wants
with a little girl, just out of (or still in) high school.
At my age I wouldn't even consider being with a 'man' (again sarcastic) 18 years old.
I want a man who can hold an intelectual conversation, share life experiences, has a career, a
home (not with their parents) and is incredibly independent (mentally & financially).
An 18 year old ??? I just don't get it.
What would we have in common? Dress (style of clothing), music, travel, physical activities (I guess other than sex Ha!) They wouldn't even be able to go out for an adult beverage.
When I was 18 I thought anyone who was in there mid to late 20's were OLD !
What do you Ladies think ?
AND how many winks & emails do you receive from men wayyyy older than
youself (only to think.. NOT... then delete).
HONESTLY, do we really want to go out with someone who is older than our own fathers?
Any Thoughts?
Repeat Whoop Whoop for Purging The Pink !!
Human history made a frame for the roles of males and females. Especially in many classic plays, males' wealth and social scale are always matched with females' youngth and beauty.
Schools use these plays for teaching materials or literatures; movie directors use them to earn profit. When a male has been exposed under those information and involuntarily absorbing them since he was little, it is not suprise that in the future he will trend to choose his romance following the frame: $ = youngth + beauty
It is really hard to correct this thousands years view and it is really unfair, because a 80 years old female may never find love any more -- few males can live to 120 years old.
Quoting GoNancyGo:
I gotta ask...WHY would a 65 year old man be looking for an 18 year old?
I see many profiles of men looking for women 2-3+ times younger than them. Wanting
them to be 18 or 21.
Am I CRAZY or does anyone else wonder what a 'mature man' (written sarcastically) wants
with a little girl, just out of (or still in) high school.
At my age I wouldn't even consider being with a 'man' (again sarcastic) 18 years old.
I want a man who can hold an intelectual conversation, share life experiences, has a career, a
home (not with their parents) and is incredibly independent (mentally & financially).
An 18 year old ??? I just don't get it.
What would we have in common? Dress (style of clothing), music, travel, physical activities (I guess other than sex Ha!) They wouldn't even be able to go out for an adult beverage.
When I was 18 I thought anyone who was in there mid to late 20's were OLD !
What do you Ladies think ?
AND how many winks & emails do you receive from men wayyyy older than
youself (only to think.. NOT... then delete).
HONESTLY, do we really want to go out with someone who is older than our own fathers?
Any Thoughts?
Repeat Whoop Whoop for Purging The Pink !!
Human history made a frame for the roles of males and females. Especially in many classic plays, males' wealth and social scale are always matched with females' youngth and beauty.
Schools use these plays for teaching materials or literatures; movie directors use them to earn profit. When a male has been exposed under those information and involuntarily absorbing them since he was little, it is not suprise that in the future he will trend to choose his romance following the frame: $ = youngth + beauty
It is really hard to correct this thousands years view and it is really unfair, because a 80 years old female may never find love any more -- few males can live to 120 years old.
Folks this is a cultural thing. Nurture...not nature. My grandmother married a 40 year old man when she was 18. That is the way the culture worked back then, you married a man that had already made his way in the world...not one just starting out. People considered this a success....18 year old snags 40 year old successful man. No problem back then in fact it was a prized goal.
For me I find the older women seem more demanding than the younger ones. I am 55 yet have a 32 year old woman pursuing me while women my age seem to turn up their noses alot. I don't get that. Yet still I can sense that this gal is just too young for me, there is something to be said for life experience.
Finally...there is a direct correlation between women becoming financially independent and the divorce rate. The chart from the 60's to today is obvious. Divorces went up when women did not have to financially depend on the man anymore. Makes perfect sense.
Folks this is a cultural thing. Nurture...not nature. My grandmother married a 40 year old man when she was 18. That is the way the culture worked back then, you married a man that had already made his way in the world...not one just starting out. People considered this a success....18 year old snags 40 year old successful man. No problem back then in fact it was a prized goal.
For me I find the older women seem more demanding than the younger ones. I am 55 yet have a 32 year old woman pursuing me while women my age seem to turn up their noses alot. I don't get that. Yet still I can sense that this gal is just too young for me, there is something to be said for life experience.
Finally...there is a direct correlation between women becoming financially independent and the divorce rate. The chart from the 60's to today is obvious. Divorces went up when women did not have to financially depend on the man anymore. Makes perfect sense.
Quoating myself... I now stand fully corrected when I say a 30 year old would not do anything for me.
I have read the profile of a 32 year old and was incredibly impressed. Please excuse me while I pull my foot (make that both feet) out of my mouth... Maybe age IS just a number.
When live throws you a curve ball... Just catch it baby...center of the glove !
Feet in Mouth, Nance
Quoting GoNancyGo:
I gotta ask...WHY would a 65 year old man be looking for an 18 year old?
I see many profiles of men looking for women 2-3+ times younger than them. Wanting
them to be 18 or 21.
Am I CRAZY or does anyone else wonder what a 'mature man' (written sarcastically) wants
with a little girl, just out of (or still in) high school.
I'm in my 40's and wouldn't even consider being with a 'man' (again sarcastic) 18 years old.
I want a man who can hold an intelectual conversation, share life experiences, has a career, a
home (not with their parents) and is incredibly independent (mentally & financially).
An 18 year old ??? I just don't get it... even a 30 year old would not do anything for me. Sure they are
nice to look at, but other than that NO NO.. and did I say "NO".
What would we have in common? Dress (style of clothing), music, travel, physical activities (I guess other than sex Ha & Uggg)
When I was 18 I thought anyone who was in there mid to late 20's were OLD !
What do you Ladies think ?
AND how many winks & emails do you receive from men wayyyy older than
youself (only to think.. NOT... then delete).
HONESTLY, do we really want to go out with someone who is older than our own fathers?
Any Thoughts?
Repeat Whoop Whoop for Purging The Pink !!
Quoting GoNancyGo:
I gotta ask...WHY would a 65 year old man be looking for an 18 year old?
I see many profiles of men looking for women 2-3+ times younger than them. Wanting
them to be 18 or 21.
Am I CRAZY or does anyone else wonder what a 'mature man' (written sarcastically) wants
with a little girl, just out of (or still in) high school.
I'm in my 40's and wouldn't even consider being with a 'man' (again sarcastic) 18 years old.
I want a man who can hold an intelectual conversation, share life experiences, has a career, a
home (not with their parents) and is incredibly independent (mentally & financially).
An 18 year old ??? I just don't get it... even a 30 year old would not do anything for me. Sure they are
nice to look at, but other than that NO NO.. and did I say "NO".
What would we have in common? Dress (style of clothing), music, travel, physical activities (I guess other than sex Ha & Uggg)
When I was 18 I thought anyone who was in there mid to late 20's were OLD !
What do you Ladies think ?
AND how many winks & emails do you receive from men wayyyy older than
youself (only to think.. NOT... then delete).
HONESTLY, do we really want to go out with someone who is older than our own fathers?
Any Thoughts?
Repeat Whoop Whoop for Purging The Pink !!
Quoating myself... I now stand fully corrected when I say a 30 year old would not do anything for me.
I have read the profile of a 32 year old and was incredibly impressed. Please excuse me while I pull my foot (make that both feet) out of my mouth... Maybe age IS just a number.
When live throws you a curve ball... Just catch it baby...center of the glove !
Lol this is funny. True in deed. I think age difference has a number of factors. In the end an older man with experience knows how to make a female feel like a woman he just knows what button to push. He knows when to be a man and stand up to her and he knows when to give in and treat her sweetly. They just have that balance.
Quoting 3345roc:
Is it possible you might be overthinking the issue? Men are very simple beings that exist in a few defined states.. hungry, horny or tired. A smart women who is able to figure out where her man is at ,and take the appropriate action, will have him eating out of her hand. He'll even go shopping with her if she's good at it.
Men also have rather fragile egos so thinking that a young beautiful women is physically attracted to him is affirming. I've had a few May-September relationships and they were all initiated by the younger woman, so I can't speak to the reason some old guys seek out young women. I forwarded your anaysis to Donald Sterling and his reply was less than stellar "shove your anima up your b*tt". I think he misunderstood anima.
Looking back on those that occured in my 40's and 50's those young women had daddy issues.... either abandonment or abuse or love/hate. At my current age it certainly is stability and security, financial or otherwise. They also claim that the men their age are very immature or lack commitment. They say that they're looking for someone just like their dad. What can I say... try to be more like your mom.
Quoting 3345roc:
Is it possible you might be overthinking the issue? Men are very simple beings that exist in a few defined states.. hungry, horny or tired. A smart women who is able to figure out where her man is at ,and take the appropriate action, will have him eating out of her hand. He'll even go shopping with her if she's good at it.
Men also have rather fragile egos so thinking that a young beautiful women is physically attracted to him is affirming. I've had a few May-September relationships and they were all initiated by the younger woman, so I can't speak to the reason some old guys seek out young women. I forwarded your anaysis to Donald Sterling and his reply was less than stellar "shove your anima up your b*tt". I think he misunderstood anima.
Looking back on those that occured in my 40's and 50's those young women had daddy issues.... either abandonment or abuse or love/hate. At my current age it certainly is stability and security, financial or otherwise. They also claim that the men their age are very immature or lack commitment. They say that they're looking for someone just like their dad. What can I say... try to be more like your mom.
Lol this is funny. True in deed. I think age difference has a number of factors. In the end an older man with experience knows how to make a female feel like a woman he just knows what button to push. He knows when to be a man and stand up to her and he knows when to give in and treat her sweetly. They just have that balance.
This is definitely not true. I have a very well developed masculine side. I actually likeolder men because their level of masculinity brings me back to traditional gender roles and from an emotional standpoint that is my preference. Men like to feel like men and taking the lead and having a younger woman does that. So that Theory is totally off the wall. History actually determines the gender role theory, that middle of the road theory is a bunch of bs
Quoting TheWildCat2014:
It's simple. Sort of. Men in their 50s and 60s (and even older) who actively look for much younger women have not found a way to be with their inner feminine, their anima. They project it outward and are stuck in a way in this projective pattern. Young women whose inner masculine is not strong enough yet look to acquire their animus through a relaitonship with an older man who is established and "secure". Both live in a fantasy world Oof their own creation, because of course the lasting compatibility only exists on a soul level and it is very rare for a young soul to be so mature - or for the old soul so immature - in the course of a lifetime that they would naturally match... It happens, but as an anomaly, not the rule. James Hollis describes it well in "The Middle Passage".
Quoting TheWildCat2014:
It's simple. Sort of. Men in their 50s and 60s (and even older) who actively look for much younger women have not found a way to be with their inner feminine, their anima. They project it outward and are stuck in a way in this projective pattern. Young women whose inner masculine is not strong enough yet look to acquire their animus through a relaitonship with an older man who is established and "secure". Both live in a fantasy world Oof their own creation, because of course the lasting compatibility only exists on a soul level and it is very rare for a young soul to be so mature - or for the old soul so immature - in the course of a lifetime that they would naturally match... It happens, but as an anomaly, not the rule. James Hollis describes it well in "The Middle Passage".
This is definitely not true. I have a very well developed masculine side. I actually likeolder men because their level of masculinity brings me back to traditional gender roles and from an emotional standpoint that is my preference. Men like to feel like men and taking the lead and having a younger woman does that. So that Theory is totally off the wall. History actually determines the gender role theory, that middle of the road theory is a bunch of bs
Hmmm.....I think these kind of men yearn for their gone-by youth and think they can reclaim some of those feelings by getting a 'baby mama'. To each his own and I wish them well. Hopefully when they write that check every month they will think the screwing they got.....was worth the screwing they got. :)) *wink*
Hmmm.....I think these kind of men yearn for their gone-by youth and think they can reclaim some of those feelings by getting a 'baby mama'. To each his own and I wish them well. Hopefully when they write that check every month they will think the screwing they got.....was worth the screwing they got. :)) *wink*
It's simple. Sort of. Men in their 50s and 60s (and even older) who actively look for much younger women have not found a way to be with their inner feminine, their anima. They project it outward and are stuck in a way in this projective pattern. Young women whose inner masculine is not strong enough yet look to acquire their animus through a relaitonship with an older man who is established and "secure". Both live in a fantasy world Oof their own creation, because of course the lasting compatibility only exists on a soul level and it is very rare for a young soul to be so mature - or for the old soul so immature - in the course of a lifetime that they would naturally match... It happens, but as an anomaly, not the rule. James Hollis describes it well in "The Middle Passage".
It's simple. Sort of. Men in their 50s and 60s (and even older) who actively look for much younger women have not found a way to be with their inner feminine, their anima. They project it outward and are stuck in a way in this projective pattern. Young women whose inner masculine is not strong enough yet look to acquire their animus through a relaitonship with an older man who is established and "secure". Both live in a fantasy world Oof their own creation, because of course the lasting compatibility only exists on a soul level and it is very rare for a young soul to be so mature - or for the old soul so immature - in the course of a lifetime that they would naturally match... It happens, but as an anomaly, not the rule. James Hollis describes it well in "The Middle Passage".
Oh you come to the right time .. Last night I watched the present big issue now in the Society here in Europe.
An old rich Guy have met another Girl who is more than 20 years younger than Him ..of course the Society got
their own negative and positive views to the issue but Her daughter gave the kick out of it when She was asked about it ... and She said because her Mom wants to have a better life .. well thats it ,but me myself I will
never judge a Person who decided on one thing .. what im trying to say ,let us be kind hearted and rational
thinker .. let us give those old guys a chance .. thats their life not ours ... Amen ...
Oh you come to the right time .. Last night I watched the present big issue now in the Society here in Europe.
An old rich Guy have met another Girl who is more than 20 years younger than Him ..of course the Society got
their own negative and positive views to the issue but Her daughter gave the kick out of it when She was asked about it ... and She said because her Mom wants to have a better life .. well thats it ,but me myself I will
never judge a Person who decided on one thing .. what im trying to say ,let us be kind hearted and rational
thinker .. let us give those old guys a chance .. thats their life not ours ... Amen ...
