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extraheart
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Posted on Thu, Apr 17, 2014 09:52

Well, I guess not everybody has a dating objective, not just online dating. I said my purpose is to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, find love, etc, I was asking a man what other men are doing on the Internet, some are married, etc, he said some are just looking to spend time, get some stimulation of any sort, sex sometimes but not necessarily, some are just looking at the pictures, you see, they used to sit in coffee shops and walk in the street to watch women, now they have Internet as an option, too! what do you think? 



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BFDeal
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Posted on Thu, Apr 17, 2014 17:52

No players?  Next, you are going to disqualify all the liars! 

 

Nobody lies.  It usually says so right in their profile.



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Posted on Thu, Apr 17, 2014 17:34

"Be a girl with a mind a woman with an attitude and a lady with class"

Men don't want girls, boys do. If you want a man, be a grown up woman.

A woman with an attidude is fine as long as that attitude is kindness. Anything else and its just issues and drama.

A lady with class is always welcome and welcome everywhere.

And if you don't know how to handle a problem without being bitchy, you don't have class... you just have expensive clothes.

 

"I am with you.  I dislike how Internet has made it like a shopping trip for men.  I have found that as a woman, we need to set boundaries and also be representative of good values.  Some of us are not looking for players.  It doesnt make us needy, as I am certainly very independant.  It is about being classy and a real woman."

 

Yeah, men are the only one shopping... women never browse mens profiles like they were looking for shoes! LOL

"real women" - wow... doesn't speak kindly of some of your gender.  I was under the impression that all women were "real" maybe different needs, different styles, different upbringings but "real" all the same.

 

As for my objective... that's pretty simple. It's to meet people.  Some people will be coffee dates, some will be dinner dates, some may be lovers, one or two might even be train wrecks that amuse me and one may end up being my wife. I'm not setting limits or expectations.

 



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jolene1969
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Posted on Thu, Apr 17, 2014 15:07

I am with you.  I dislike how Internet has made it like a shopping trip for men.  I have found that as a woman, we need to set boundaries and also be representative of good values.  Some of us are not looking for players.  It doesnt make us needy, as I am certainly very independant.  It is about being classy and a real woman.  

 

I cannot help but, in my glass full positive aproach think, that there is hope out there.  That some take it seriously and like us, can only date and commit to one person at a time.  Just my thoughts.  Do not give up!

 

If you aren't being treated with love and respect, check your price tag. Maybe you've marked yourself down. It's YOU who tells people what your worth. Get off of the clearance rack and get behind the glass where they keep the valuables.

 

"Be a girl with a mind a woman with an attitude and a lady with class"



Sometimes in life, a darkness may behold our lives, and in times of weakness, we ask "why?", but without some darkness, how could we appreciate the shining light.

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