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Dilemna, Dilemna on appliances Posted on Mar 09, 2010 at 04:33 PM

I need to choose a new water heater.  But before doing so I decided to do more research on it.  This house is all electric.  so many choices ..........................I must say I feel confused.  what to go for, not a regular water heater I know that for sure, but I saw other choices as to Heat pump water heater, a solar power water heater or a tankless water heater.  do any of you know more about those choices?  the pro and cons of it?  Thanks a bunch.......


I am going to miss all of you Posted on Feb 19, 2010 at 01:11 PM

Thanks for all your blogs.  It has been uneventful and fun.  I will stay on until mid March which is the time frame I have given myself to be on the site.  remember, if you like someone, just tell the person directly!  those simple little words can perhaps start you on a frank, and honest, YOURSELF.  will miss you.....


did you miss me?? Posted on Feb 16, 2010 at 01:02 PM

My confession: well it has been a week since on this site (last confession, LOL).  No actually, when we had the snow, and really stuck in it (felt more like 8 feet),  I had no power, tv, so I stayed at a friend, miserable with a cold......cupid forgot to send an arrow at someone for me, or just no one came forward (cupid slapped me in the face) will be to prepare all the paperwork for my taxes, ha ha ha......what has been happening???  and oh yes, saints won......what a game it was!!!!

Saints VS colts Posted on Feb 04, 2010 at 03:13 PM

Hey I don't know much about those two teams, you know it will be a rought game, Who are you voting for?  and why? Who do you think will win?  I'll say the saint.

who's your daddy! Posted on Feb 01, 2010 at 11:23 AM

When I was younger, I dated a guy for a while then suddenly he said "who's your daddy!".  I looked at him unsure of what to say, slapped him on the tooshy and told him, no no no, you don't say that!


Well, we were out with friends, and one of my friend just started dating this guy.  they were smooshing and you know what.  he said to her before going "who's your daddy!"  and she giggled to say you are!  I was really surprised to hear that again.  I looked at her and said, you going to let him say that!!!! she laughed and responded yes why not.


Perhaps I am just misunderstanding: tell me what is your comprehension of "who's your daddy!"  isn't it an insult? what does it mean then?  Is it something you would say to a girl and why?

is it a scam? Posted on Jan 22, 2010 at 06:10 AM



I ran into someone and started talking to him.  as I was talking he said he was from Benin Republic, so I said where, of course Africa.  I then told him that we women were aware of the scammers from africa and he would not get money from me. His reply was do you know why noone wants to talk to me or drop me

bcs am an african black man to be honest and they seems to always call me black monkey 9:04 AM
so since then , thats how i turn to someone using a white pic

Conv guy where is your picture? Posted on Jan 21, 2010 at 02:36 PM

Curiosity got me:  you mentioned you might intimidate someone away, but I don't believe it.  Why no picture???? I hate my own picture  (taken in the middle of a busy workday) but I posted it anyway.  it is so nice to put a picture to the person talking to you.....Of course you not obligated...... I am asking because if I would meet someone somewhere that has no picture right now, I would be a little scared of a faux pas for not knowing what he would look like.  Don't you want to share?  LOL 

I really liked the picture of the horse in the blog "test"....LOL

not for me Posted on Jan 19, 2010 at 03:43 PM

Torontobabyboy is only 25 and sent me a wink,  as baby smooth as you might be

I have to say no to the half my age one on 

isn't there a term for that?????

entertainment: The best divorce letters Posted on Jan 19, 2010 at 12:38 PM

Dear hubby,

I¿m writing you this letter to tell you that I¿m leaving you forever..
been a good woman to you for 7 years & I have nothing to show for it.

These last 2 weeks have been hell..

Your boss called to tell me that you quit your job today & that was the
last straw. Last week, you came home & didn¿t even notice I had a new
had cooked your favorite meal & even wore a brand new pair of silk dress.
You ate in 2 minutes, & went straight to sleep after watching all of your
games. You don¿t tell me you love me anymore; you don¿t want anything
that connects us as husband & wife. Either you are cheating on me or you
don¿t love me anymore; whatever the case, I¿m gone.

Your EX-Wife
P.S. Don¿t try to find me. Your BROTHER & I are moving away to West
together! Have a great life!


Dear Ex-Wife

Nothing has made my day more than receiving your letter.

It¿s true you & I have been married for 7 years, although a good woman is
far cry from what you¿ve been. I watch my games so much because they drown
out your constant whining & gripe Too bad that doesn¿t work. I DID notice
when you got a hair cut last week, but the 1st thing that came to mind was
¿You look just like a boy!¿ Since my mother raised me not to say anything
if you can¿t say something nice, I didn¿t comment. And when you cooked my
favorite meal, you must have gotten me confused with MY BROTHER, because I
stopped eating pork 7 years ago.. About those new silk dress: I turned
from you because the $49.99 price tag was still on them, & I prayed it was
a coincidence that my brother had just borrowed $50 from
me that morning.

After all of this, I still loved you & felt we could work it out.. So when
hit the lotto for 10 million dollars, I quit my job & bought us 2 tickets
to Jamaica But when I got home you were gone. Everything happens for a
reason, I guess.

I hope you have the fulfilling life you always wanted. My lawyer said that
the letter you wrote ensures you won¿t get a dime from me.

So take care.

Your Ex-Husband, Rich As Hell & Free!

P.S. I don¿t know if I ever told you this, but my brother Carl was born as
Carla(woman) ¿¿¿ .I hope that¿s not a problem

Mens where are you hidding??? Posted on Jan 15, 2010 at 11:18 AM

Thank you Ican and is nice meeting you.  you probably right by saying A man will come in time.  I guess I will wait,......I am pretty straight forward, and do not like man that say one thing I do another.  Say for ex: a man from this site contacted me, then he got too busy to contact me as he was suppose to, why couldn't he just said I don't want to call and that would been simple.  but no instead he kept on saying I will call you.......What maybe in a year or so????? oh please, I thought, get a grip on yourself.    




I especially like the ones that talks to you and POOF suddenly you don't hear from them? 




Wouldn't it be nice if life could be more simple?   I like you let's meet...........because in reality a picture is just a picture, but isn't it true that it is nicer to meet the person face to face and have a better perspective, a profile is just a profile and doesn't really define who you are truly?




Patience is a virtue, are you suppose to catch them the old fashion way, with a lasso, as if we were in a cowboy movie? 

Where are the prince charming????? yes still dreaming here


LOL to me


Here's a man for you!!!! Posted on Jan 13, 2010 at 04:32 PM

Recent story:  I was with this man (that had a very decent income) that promised to take care of me and even proposed to me.  we moved into a house and we needed to buy things for the house like trash can, coffee maker, (let's not forget the filters), ustensils, among other. you get the picture.  Well before we reached the register he suddenly said " I am sorry I won't be able to pay with you"  to my astonishement I paid for it.  Then we needed blinds for the windows to keep the curious eyes out, and while at the register at home depot, he did not attempt once to help paying with me. He then go on to mention at another time how we need a couch, so my clever friends said ask him if he will pay.  so I ask him and his answer was "well I will help you make a decision on it"  ?????? really????? I said.  so I wanted to see how far he would go......I guess for fun.  close to Christmas, my sons gave me a list therefore I asked him for a list as well.  His list was as follow:  A new car, a yearly covered membership at brook brother for 5000.00, pay his credit card bills.  I looked shocked...... I went shopping for my son at the store and he was with me, he tried on a pair of sleepers and said so mom will you buy them for me.......and I thought (are you joking?)  I told him if he wanted to buy them himself he should. smarter after the initial shock.......LOL  Then he mentioned how we need a shredder, so I tell him where he can buy it, and he did not buy it to this day.  Christmas comes and I see under the tree one present for me, I asked him if he was going to buy a present for my kids from their list and is answer was yes until christmas day where I did not see any present for my kids coming from him, (but let's not forget he casually mentioned I should write that all the present I BOUGHT should be saying coming from both of Us)  I WROTE ON EACH PRESENT THAT THEY WERE FROM SANTA.  LOL 

As to him, I did get him one present THE SLEEPERS HE WANTED SO MUCH with a note saying please leave, and don't come back.

True story


is dating a mirage???? Posted on Jan 11, 2010 at 05:54 AM

it is strange that with all of us posting our ad to find someone, does not seem to actually work in finding someone.  Why?

are you men too busy? 

do you just want to chat?

do you not have enough time for someone?