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Posted on Sat, Oct 27, 2007 13:34

Thanks RG! I'll try the counting to 7 thing. Hey! I can count that high, so lucky me! haha Barb, you should! Ask for the best and I'm sure you'll get a good massage. I like it as it's no frills, nice atmosphere, reasonably priced and in and out. No whinny women naked dorking around a locker room blah, blah... Get in, get naked, get massaged and out! haha I know that sounds bad...but no love you long time type...just real massage.


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Posted on Sat, Oct 27, 2007 08:25

Thank you RG. Hmmm, other modalities?? what do you mean by that besides the hot stones (which I love by the way)? You mean other types of massage? The way she does it is 2 hours once a week and has a methodical process starting at the chest to open up breathing muscle memory. I'm terribly tense ususally by nature and struggle to relax period. This is perfect for me as one hour isn't ever enough for any kind of massage. I barely get there and it's over! Usually when I get my "Matt massage - full body" Other body parts scream "Do me, do me" and there isn't enough time in an hour to do them thoroughly or enough for me to get into it. Any ideas how to relax better? I'm a good deep breather and it helps...but still. I was thinking an Epson salt bath after Rolfing time to help pull out any brusing or toxins after. She will come to my house! Even better so I can really relax. I'll look at the mat, but will just laying on it help or must one "do" something special on it? That's a big investment for something that may not work? I'll read up on it though and try just about anything! Hey, my massage guy Matt suggested the Rolfing by this gal, and "it was meant to be!!" :) I have my normal 2 hour massage with my wonderful "Matt" this eve. I'll ask around the place to see if anyone knows about the Biomat...and I'll ask the Rolfing Lady, Carolyn. I go to 'Massage Envy', which is a franchise and LOVE it!! They have them dotted around the country. I found a great massuer, a man with hands and now he knows my body...and he's young and adorable which doesn't hurt- that maybe an illusion to keep with the blog theme!! haha But I wouldn't care if he was old and ugly with warts on his nose if he can make me feel better!! Ever hear of Massage Envy? That's all they do, no day spa stuff, just massage at a reasonable price. Best money I've spent on me in a long time! I've had many massage therapists and I found a good o...


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Posted on Fri, Oct 26, 2007 23:14

RG...forgot to tell you (I think) that I got "Rolfed" last week! OH Man was it intense. Do you know how to do that? I am thinking I will commit to the 10 week theraphy as it seemed to help much more than just a massage. Got in really deep and hit the exact areas that are contributing to the pain due to the muscle tension causing swelling, etc in the joints in my neck and my whole right side which was affected from my fall. Would love to know your thoughts on it before committing to 10 weeks, 2 hrs per week. But, I think it was better than PT for me.


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Posted on Fri, Oct 26, 2007 22:20

01, I'm here for ya!! And amazed at the timing of us connecting still. God is good huh? Please email me and let me know when you are planning to have your surgery. I want to be there for you in spirit and wish I could be there personally just to help you heal. You too RG. I've been on the road this week and it's hard to keep up with these blogs and I missed the meat behind the 'olives'! :) Found it deep on page 2. I'm terrible about picking up the phone...but will email you my number and feel free to call anytime! Eves and weekends are best. I'll help talk and pray you through the next few weeks leading up and beyond. I remember the feeling. Wish I was closer. I'd come sit with ya too! Cry, laugh, whatever to help. I do promise you will feel much better getting that gunk out of your system. The pain is temporary and the result is delightful!! I had one good year of pain free life physically and I am grateful. Again, wish I knew then what I know now and I would have done it years ago! RG...thank you! I'd like to learn more about that mat! Is it a magnet mat? Hang in there Elaine. I learned to say "Thank you Lord for..." because no matter what...it can always be worse! Saying the words helps the heart remember adn the soul to be reminded too.


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Posted on Wed, Oct 24, 2007 07:24

I'm just bumping this up for one of my favorite little dolly birds in a short skirt with a charming green bra underneath. MORNIN' RG!!!!

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Posted on Tue, Oct 23, 2007 12:19

This is an excellent support blog. We should all keep in touch. I went through it years ago and wish I had some hand holding back then. Huge hug to all of you!!!! Love, steel


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Posted on Tue, Oct 23, 2007 05:20

RG, How's tricks, hun??? Glad you liked the Catherine Tate videos I sent you. Will forward on more funnies to you... Keep smiling! Back Up is on duty.

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Posted on Mon, Oct 22, 2007 08:47

Oh man Elaine!!! I so know what you are feeling (in jest as we can't know exactly someone else's pain) as I felt hopeless and lost and did the very same thing and even prayed God would take me...I didn't want to live "like this". (wouldn't kill myself...too chicken...but wanted Him to take me.) Then, 3 days later He "allowed" my neck to be broken (I say normally..."He broke my neck"..to show me a series of miracles He performed to follow to remind me He DOES have a purpose and a plan for my life. And, He IS able!!! Silly of me to forget so many times. I still don't know what "it" (my purpose) is per se, but am finding contentment that there is more, and I will find/have it when He's ready to show me and I'm ready to know. I pray both are soon! Interestingly enough, I had a massage last night and the woman who gave it to me is also a believer and starting a singles bible study in her home tonight. Mon and fri are about the only days I can such a thing because of my travel schedule. She attends Saddleback Church where the author and pastor of 40 Days of Purpose is. They are beginning a world-wide 40 days of Purpose again like he did 5 yrs ago when he wrote the book. Maybe search online for this and the book. It really is good and I know it'll help ground me and give me strenth and focus on what "it" is I need to be doing with my gifts, my life and my focus. I invite you to peek too. I had been praying for new friends (mine moved), a chance to meet new singles not in bars or freaky places and also get closer to God and find my purpose! Whalla! I am also in chronic pain from breaking my neck...working with a pain doc and sometimes it's overwhelming. Just thinking of you too suffering hurts my heart. People think I'm so strong...if they only knew! :) I'm praying for you and lifting you up right now Elaine. I'm asking for Peace and Purpose and mostly contentment and joy in the midst of it al...


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Posted on Wed, Oct 03, 2007 14:19

RG so true it all has to do with following your heart if your heart is not in it you can not accept anyones help or your own for that matter...because only you know when the time is right and that mask won't come down until you are fully free of the reasons it went up in the first place...yet if the right person comes along( friend, lover who ever )and they can see past all that put the mask there ...they may be able to bring it down sooner with love and guidance...for "angels" come in many forms to help us in many ways:)


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Posted on Tue, Oct 02, 2007 04:05

This blog is filled with so many great thoughts. Life is an illusion, and sometimes that illusion can get pretty crazy. Here is an illusion that I will share with you. As many of you know, one of my cats has been missing. I have spent a great deal of time searching, posting notices and so on, to find him. Last night I recieved a call from a women who said she knows where he is. She was able to describe my Zina perfectly. She said he had been at her house and that her grandmother had moved and taken him with her. I thought I had found him. I was so excited!!! Tears of happiness were falling down my face, my magic was working and I knew my much loved cat would be home with me last night. Well, I called the grandmothers number and they claimed they had never seen him...my heart dropped as another part of me died... I talked with both of these people for hours. They both argued their sides(it was a family fight) and I went to bed frustrated and crying. I have not slept all night. All the pain of loss has returned...the illusion has continued and there is nothing I can do expect wait, pray, and try to live in the now. Just one more illusion....

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Posted on Mon, Oct 01, 2007 12:09

not everyone who wears these masks for a long time know how to let them down ...some need guidance others stumble on their own but finally shaking those masks is truly a beautiful gift to ones self ...whether one baby step at a time or a giant leap forward the rewards are really worth every step....and RG your right loosing them can be very scary and fear can play a big role in whether or not the mask comes down or stays up;)


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Posted on Tue, Sep 18, 2007 06:24

Re: PaulineMaria write: We do not always open our eyes and check the reality...or even see the bigger picture. Maybe there is a lesson in this...I am learning many.

YES..after all this weeks, I have not suspected a guy will try to play a mind game to me of all people, when my purpose is to find true love for people..It took me weeks to ask MM to investigate this ''illusion'' and they came up with real ANSWER!


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Posted on Mon, Sep 17, 2007 06:16

I know boldnsexy The moment Johntest's blog came up...it was like an 'eye opener''


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Posted on Sun, Sep 16, 2007 12:09

aaahhh but that's what i've assume too he he he either that or you have your dog as your company hehehhe wink wink


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Posted on Sat, Sep 15, 2007 22:54

<3 (sorry I missed you last night.. I had company, shall we try again today? :-) ) __________________________ Aha now I know why you're MIA lol


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Posted on Fri, Sep 14, 2007 06:20

Queen so you've lost your desire we'll have to set it on fire for we have missed you and didn't know what to do now we will welcome you back and we'll keep you on track for without you we were lost and need you back no matter the cost


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Posted on Sun, Sep 02, 2007 06:50

RG Sorry I missed your message, I left this online but went out for lunch, now you're gone and I'm back..hmmmm Woman are we playing hide and seek? LOLOLOL oh my god RG, I long to have my cupid arrow hit my mark for you LOLOL..nothing new with me except that I think, I've gone to poetic mode hahaha..after reading some of the blogs LOLOL Queen I join you in your wish to have precious Zina back.


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Posted on Sat, Sep 01, 2007 06:53

Queennnnn What's the news on your cat??? RG...you've been missing in action lol


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Posted on Fri, Aug 31, 2007 14:25

queen I hope you find Zina ...I know what it's like to loose on e for I've had many over the years ....the one I have now has an enlarged heart she has about 80% use of her hind legs on a good day and 75% on a bad....she lost the use a while back that's when we discovered her heart so now I have to make her as comfortable as possible the out look is she may live 1 hr, 1day ( that was 4 yrs ago) or the full 15 yrs...I know that my love for her is keeping her going


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Posted on Wed, Aug 29, 2007 07:06

RG I guess I need a vacation!!! I'm posting on the wrong blogs!!!! or maybe I'm having too much fun LMAO


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