Inspired bt the Lust or Love blog.
I think the "friends second" philosophy, a better way to establish the potential for a ltr. I look to nature these days. First I see, then I smell, then i'd like to taste. (With your permission, of course.) If there is a passion, a lust, early on, let the love, the friendshp, grow around it. It is more sustainable than conversley. I more prefer a woman that clears the screen quickly. "Friends first", seems to waste time, money, & a set up for disappointments. As I get older, time gets more precious.