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Posted on Mon, Sep 30, 2013 14:13

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Jenknee, one day I will send you all a photo of myself.  Or perhaps we will all get together somewhere.  Everything I've ever told you or anyone on this blog is true.  I don't look like a body builder but I work out regularly.  I did gymnastics in highschool and college.  I have a small but nice gym with commercial equipment.  I've worked out intensely in my life, so much that my chest muscles out-grew my skin (stretch marks).  Now I work out every other day.  I try to stay in shape and by no means look like the photo you posted.  And before you think that you've insulted me, you have not.  I realize that men lie all the time.  I'm just not one of those men.  If you want to know why I don't post a photo, just ask me privately. 


I'm glad you didn't take the photo I posted personally cuz believe it or not, I wasn't implying that you would have something in common with that guy, especially since Hoping (one of our members here for those who may not know) met you in person.

 

I really don't get the point of being dishonest whether it's in photos or some other way. Do these liars think that once we meet them they will charm us by their winning personalties and we will forget the rest? The liars make me run for the hills, I was married to a perpetual liar for 20 years, I can't handle dishonesty any more.

 

I also find "one-photo guys" a waste of time, if you are going to post only one photo, have it really be you and be a clear,current photo. Most women aren't seeking perfection, we just want to know what you look like.  I may not love your receding hairline but your eyes are something I want to gaze into,etc.,etc..  Not that I have met that many guys from online but every one-photo guy had something that made him different in person. One guy that had a headshot only, I knew he was going to be overweight,.. he was obese. I'm sure there are women who would still be attracted to him had he shown his whole appearance and maybe for the rest he could have saved some time.


I just wish people would volunteer information on their profiles that would help us all save time or become even more interested.  Declare your religious and political beliefs and if you don't care then state you don't care!  Those 2 views make all the difference to me. And why did you wait to tell me you have 3 young kids that take up ALL of your extra time? Maybe someone wants to become the next Brady Bunch with you but I'm done with young kids, I love kids but still, I'm done with that stage of my life.

 

Oh and you, you were going to be a priest? How bout warning me that you are the exact opposite of priestly (no jokes please), you're a total sleezeball and that's why you couldn't be a priest.sigh. I have chatted with all types from a former porn star to a future priest, I would like something in the middle of those, please. The point is had they volunteered this critical info. early on, neither one of us would have wasted our time.

 

 

Everyone has someone who will be right for them, the waiting is the hardest part. (Hearing Tom Petty in my mind right now)

 

 


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Posted on Mon, Sep 30, 2013 11:45

OMG! DAK - Your blog is gone??!!!

 

MM - what a shame!



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Posted on Mon, Sep 30, 2013 11:45

DAK - Well SAID!!!!!

 

 

 

MM - Hides behind the delete key! It falsely accuses bloggers of posting pornographic materials when none of such was ever posted! I have to say I have never seen a website as Nazi-Gestapo styled yet childish as this one.

 

 

 

They deleted a blog I wrote on a judge ruling that a mother couldn't name her baby boy Messiah - and this was a blog that was on for a long time with many positive contributions to it. They deleted the blog along with all the wonderful work of contribution without a thought to the time and energy that the posters put to it. And they did this for no good reason. They e-mailed me telling me we had posted pornographic materials along with a long list of atrocities we have purportedly committed. When I asked them to kindly provide me with the evidence/the post which contained offensive materials to support their FALSE and extremely SERIOUS allegations, they said they had none. Infact they could not even find the blog even though they deleted it, and wrote to me to that effect. To say that I was astonished would be an understatement.

 

 

 

They swiftly brought their CLAWS out and, every blog I ever posted thereafter, they swiftly deleted!!!!

 

 

They deleted a total of SEVEN [7 ] BLOGS I wrote altogether!!! And nearly every time they deleted my blogs, they would send me the same offensive e-mail informing me that they have deleted my blog because I posted pornographic or offensive materials which were completely FALSE. How do you explain such insanity?

 

 

 

I publicly invited MM/Brittany to kindly come out of hiding holes and have an open discussion about their vicious vendetta against me and their extremely CHILDISH and anti-Freedom of Speech behaviour, they just responded by deleting anything I had to write!!! For Godsake, my life does not revolve around MM – so I have stopped posting blog as MM obviously does not want them and I certainly will not spend a penny of my hard earn cash on a website like this one! And you know what they say about a seriously pissed-off customer??

 

 

 

MM – your behaviour has been extremely unprofessional and disgraceful. I call it as it is and I do not care if you delete this blog as well. You have already proved yourselves to me and I am disgusted.

 

 

 

MM has lost my respect and clearly this is a website that has exhibited absolutely no professionalism and that which prides itself upon falsely accusing its patrons and customers of offences they never committed and which MM just arbitrarily made up. School yard bullies aren’t even as tacky as this!

 

 

 

MM - You are a walking law suit just waiting to happen. Making false allegations against innocent people is a serious matter. I certainly will NOT be RECOMMENDING you to anyone. I will not hesitate to place my very negative experience on here in the public domain. There is no hiding place on the internet and one would expect that you would at least have been aware of this, but apparently not. You believe you hold the power to the delete button, but what you do not realise is how self-destructive that is.

 

 

 

 

Liv.



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Posted on Mon, Sep 30, 2013 11:44

At this point in time I am terribly offended. MM deleted my response on this blog because I recounted my very, very bitter experience with them!

 

MM - Your action of deleting people's comments that clearly states - and with facts - that your actions are wrong is very sad and tragic indeed.

 

Where do you draw the line between sensible and total impunity? Your reputation as it is now is sliding down a sloping road very quickly and I bet that doesn't bother you - how you can destroy your own website and business like this is quite astonishing!

 

If you like delete this post as well - I won't hold my breath on any sort of mature or responsible action from you end. And btw, I will simply repost my post you deleted yesterday.

 

Remember, your website is public and members are reading - so put on your best performance!

 

Liv.



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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 22:48

Jenknee, one day I will send you all a photo of myself.  Or perhaps we will all get together somewhere.  Everything I've ever told you or anyone on this blog is true.  I don't look like a body builder but I work out regularly.  I did gymnastics in highschool and college.  I have a small but nice gym with commercial equipment.  I've worked out intensely in my life, so much that my chest muscles out-grew my skin (stretch marks).  Now I work out every other day.  I try to stay in shape and by no means look like the photo you posted.  And before you think that you've insulted me, you have not.  I realize that men lie all the time.  I'm just not one of those men.  If you want to know why I don't post a photo, just ask me privately. 


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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 20:38

Dakota must be really infuriated since he typed he was "pissed". Is it just me or does it seem unusual coming from Dakota?  Anyway, I did want to tell you, Dakota, that I'm sorry you also have been censored, deleted and/or blocked. There were only a few times where I felt something should get dealt with by the MM staff and that is when someone is threatened or the blogs/forum is being used for soliciting purposes. I have found the site to be lacking as of late and if we feel we can't be free enough to communicate then other sites may seem more welcoming.

 

 

I have two, long term threads in the forum. Unfortunitely my original/previous acct. got hacked into, I was the one to contact this site to tell them, I was given no choice and no time to change or save anything and was immediately deleted altogther so now those 2 threads with approx. 25,000 views look like they were started by someone else who is no longer available, just a little frustrating for me and perplexing to some new readers. Just an example of my experience here.

 

 

Hang in there!!  This could just be maybe the slower cycle with something more entertaining to come :)

 

The male in this pic. claims he's "athletic".  Photos do help some of us,.. just saying!!

 


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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 19:12

Quoting fishyme:

  Dak, Your only allowed to have just so much responsible fun on any given day here it seems.



Fishy, does that mean I can have some irresponsible fun???  What trouble can we get into?



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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 19:03

Quoting bepositive:

This post makes me sad.......I love your posts honey and would hope you stay and talk to us.  Dont know what is happening with MM.   Hope you are happy in love and life, my friend.......hugs

Jutta


 

 

Awh, bepositive...you are so sweet.  I'm feeling a little better about MM since they have allowed this blog to stay up.  I generally like the site, it's just that I hate censorship.  We all have experienced it.  When we sit and spend or time to write down our thoughts...because we care, then to only have them removed, well that is upsetting.  MM is one of my favorite sites.  Probably because it attracts beautiful intelligent women...okay some are not so intelligent, but the ones on the blogs sure are!!!

 

What I've noticed is that we have been censored to small talk on the blogs.  Finally people get angry with the censorship and start blogging less.  Hoping was the blog queen, and damn she was good at it.  I'm sure other issues called her away from the blogs, but I'd bet censorship may have been a small contributor.

 

This is one of the most civil blogs that I have ever used.  I just can't understand why MM censors what they censor.  If anyone has ever been on Yahoo Financial blogs, now those are some that need to be monitored.  On Yahoo blogs, there is everything from racism, prejudice, to wishing someone to die.  Now those are the things that are unacceptable without doubt.

 

MM should have a policy that it takes more than one complaint about a blog to have it removed.  And even if there are more than one complaint MM should use common sense in the blogs removal.  And why should a whole blog be removed it only one comment is offensive.  So we all spend our time to comment on someone's blog, one person post a comment that is out of line and the whole blog is removed.  All the time everyone put into posting on the blog was worthless time spent.  That's just inconsiderate by MM.  Think about it.

 

 



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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 17:58

This post makes me sad.......I love your posts honey and would hope you stay and talk to us.  Dont know what is happening with MM.   Hope you are happy in love and life, my friend.......hugs

Jutta



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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 16:48

Quoting Dakota35:

 

Hey Guys and Gals,

 

Thanks for the support.  The MM Nazi patrol must not have caught this blog yet. 

 

I tried to post a blog regarding a member on this site that had blocked me.  I don't mind getting blocked but it was the way she did it.  I had commented on her profile as she seemed to be a nice woman.  She had a small photo up and I couldn't tell much about it, but she looked attractive (maybe).  But after reading her profile, I came to the conclusion that we may share the same views.  So after making a comment on her profile, she emailed me.  Straight out, she asked for my photo.  I understand this completely.  Although I could have sent anyone's photo and she wouldn't have known the difference.  But I'm not like that.  So I told her that it really wasn't my thing to share photos.  I'm more than willing to meet in person if only for a few minutes so that someone can get a idea of my looks.  In fact, I met Hoping in person and had dinner with her.  And I believe we both enjoyed it.  It is my plans to put up a photo at some point, but I've just never been one that liked to do such.  But with that said, I can completely understand from a woman's point of view why me not having a photo would be a problem.  So I explained this to the lady wished her luck, said a few nice things and parted ways.  No big deal.

 

So 2 days later I go to the Chat on this site.  I just like to look to see who is chatting.  I walked away from my computer and headed to the kitchen because I'd been challenged by a friend to eat some hot peppers.  About a hour I return to see that this lady has sent me a chat request and a message that says "why will you not send me a photo?"  I knew I had been away from the room for awhile so I wrote back "are you still there?" She was not.  But within a few minutes she came back on saying "It doesn't matter anyway"  I replied "Okay, but I would like to chat with you because we seem to have some things in common"  she said something smart to which I reminded her that she had sent me the chat request not the other way around.  I wasn't going to ever contact her again.  Well immediately she blocked me.  It popped up on my screen "this member has blocked you".  My immediate feelings were;  I don't really care, but that kind of hurts my feelings.  I had been so concerned about things that had happened in her life.  Really was interested and wanted the best for her. Then bang, she blocked me as if I was stalking and harassing her. Of course she has the right, but it just didn't seem that she should have done so, unless I was causing her problems.

 

That is what MM deleted from the blogs.  As you can see I mentioned no name, nor would I.  And as far as I know, this lady has never posted anything to the blogs.  I still want to think she is a nice woman but maybe I'm giving her to much credit.

 

People like you and I, are what keep this site alive.  I'm constantly going through profile making comments.  Some funny, some flirty, some constructive, but comments that keep people feeling that the site is alive.  We all contribute to the blogs and the blogs IMO have suffered in recent months, probably in part due to censorship.  People spend time collecting and writing their thoughts, only to have them removed, then what's the point.  It's just a waste of time and energy.  If everyone starts to feel this way, then the blogs are dead.

 

 

 



I'll tell you something. MM has a sister site I signed up to.... the blogs and forum there are completely dead and the website - a graveyard!!! If MM carries on like this, they risk the same fate.

 

MM - come out, be responsible and respond to this in writing and not by hitting the delete button. Resist the temptation, believe me it is the better option.

 

Liv.



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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 16:35

DAK, I am so sorry they have targeted you as well! They did the same thing to me a few weeks ago. MM regrettably employs Nazi-like anti-freedom of speech approach - it's almost like Nazi Germany or Stalin's Russia. It is a real shame!

 

MM - Hides behind the delete key! And then turn around and falsely accuses bloggers of posting pornographic materials when none of such was ever posted! I must say that I am quite astonished that they do not seem to realise the legal implication of their actions.

 

They deleted a blog I wrote on a judge ruling that a mother couldn't name her baby boy Messiah - and this was a blog that was on for a long time with many positive contributions to it. They deleted the blog along with all the wonderful work of contribution without a thought to the time and energy that the posters put to it. And they did this for no good reason. They e-mailed me telling me we had posted pornographic materials along with a long list of atrocities we have purportedly committed. When I asked them to kindly provide me with the evidence/the post which contained offensive materials to support their FALSE and extremely SERIOUS allegations, they said they had none. Infact they could not even find the blog even though they deleted it, and wrote to me to that effect. To say that I was astonished would be an understatement.

 

They swiftly brought their CLAWS out and, every blog I ever posted thereafter, they swiftly deleted!!!!

 

They deleted a total of SEVEN [7 ] BLOGS I wrote altogether!!! And nearly every time they deleted my blogs, they would send me the same offensive e-mail informing me that they have deleted my blog because I posted pornographic or offensive materials which were completely FALSE. How do you explain such insanity?

 

I publicly invited MM/Brittany to kindly come out of hiding holes and have an open discussion about their vicious vendetta against me and their extremely CHILDISH and anti-Freedom of Speech behaviour, they just responded by deleting anything I had to write!!! For Godsake, my life does not revolve around MM – so I have stopped posting blog as MM obviously does not want them and I certainly will not spend a penny of my hard earn cash on a website like this one! And you know what they say about a seriously pissed-off customer??

 

MM – your behaviour has been extremely unprofessional and disgraceful. I call it as it is and I do not care if you delete this blog as well. You have already proved yourselves to me and I am disgusted.

 

MM has lost my respect and clearly this is a website that has exhibited absolutely no professionalism and that which prides itself upon falsely accusing its patrons and customers of offences they never committed and which MM just arbitrarily made up. School yard bullies aren’t even as tacky as this!

 

MM - You are a walking law suit just waiting to happen. Making false allegations against innocent people is a serious matter. I certainly will NOT be RECOMMENDING you to anyone. I will not hesitate to place my very negative experience on here in the public domain. There is no hiding place on the internet and one would expect that you would at least have been aware of this, but apparently not. You believe you hold the power to the delete button, but what you do not realise is how self-destructive that is.

 

Liv.



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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 10:53

Quoting rezi1983:

Agree 100% u r correct and right!



Rezi, thanks for the support.  You are pretty and smart...very rare!



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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 10:50

Quoting DONTFITMOLD:

Seems MM doesnt like criticisms about its sense swording .....posted a comment here and in a matter of minutes it was pulled



Hey Don,

I just don't get their reasoning behind their deletions.  I'm surprised they left this blog up.  In general I like MM but their censorship is ridiculous.  Even if someone does complain, it shouldn't be that one complaint can get a blog removed.  Now I can see if multiple people complain and the blog was controversial.  But as Bab explained, her chicken soup blog was removed.  So who complained, a jealous cook?  Or maybe a chicken.  I've always liked Canadians, but if this type of censorship is Canadian, then I never want to live there.  They'd have me locked up with hours. :)



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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 10:38

Quoting MillionDollarBab:

Hi Dak, 

It's disturbing to hear that MM has kept doing this.  My blog on my chicken soup recipe was deleted, of all things.  I called the number on the message MM sent about it, and was told that someone had complained about it.  I don't know if I believe there is a mysterious Mr. X or MS. X that complains about blogs or not.  

I tried to print your blog to document what MM is doing, but I couldn't get my computer to print it.  Do I blame MM?  100%  Is it because they're Canadian?  Well, I never gave a lot of thought to Canadian law, until this happened anyway.  I also felt my freedom of speech was violated.  

Outrageous.  

What do they achieve by destroying their own blog site? 

This is just tragic.  I'm sorry sorry sorry.



Bab,

MM probably felt that your chicken soup would cure someone of the cold and if they were cured of the cold, then they wouldn't be sitting in front of their computer viewing MM. :)  Your chicken soup would destroy their business. :) Got to remove that chicken soup blog.

 

Like I said, there is no rhyme or reason to their blog removals.



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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 10:33

  Dak, Your only allowed to have just so much responsible fun on any given day here it seems.


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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 10:31

 

Hey Guys and Gals,

 

Thanks for the support.  The MM Nazi patrol must not have caught this blog yet. 

 

I tried to post a blog regarding a member on this site that had blocked me.  I don't mind getting blocked but it was the way she did it.  I had commented on her profile as she seemed to be a nice woman.  She had a small photo up and I couldn't tell much about it, but she looked attractive (maybe).  But after reading her profile, I came to the conclusion that we may share the same views.  So after making a comment on her profile, she emailed me.  Straight out, she asked for my photo.  I understand this completely.  Although I could have sent anyone's photo and she wouldn't have known the difference.  But I'm not like that.  So I told her that it really wasn't my thing to share photos.  I'm more than willing to meet in person if only for a few minutes so that someone can get a idea of my looks.  In fact, I met Hoping in person and had dinner with her.  And I believe we both enjoyed it.  It is my plans to put up a photo at some point, but I've just never been one that liked to do such.  But with that said, I can completely understand from a woman's point of view why me not having a photo would be a problem.  So I explained this to the lady wished her luck, said a few nice things and parted ways.  No big deal.

 

So 2 days later I go to the Chat on this site.  I just like to look to see who is chatting.  I walked away from my computer and headed to the kitchen because I'd been challenged by a friend to eat some hot peppers.  About a hour I return to see that this lady has sent me a chat request and a message that says "why will you not send me a photo?"  I knew I had been away from the room for awhile so I wrote back "are you still there?" She was not.  But within a few minutes she came back on saying "It doesn't matter anyway"  I replied "Okay, but I would like to chat with you because we seem to have some things in common"  she said something smart to which I reminded her that she had sent me the chat request not the other way around.  I wasn't going to ever contact her again.  Well immediately she blocked me.  It popped up on my screen "this member has blocked you".  My immediate feelings were;  I don't really care, but that kind of hurts my feelings.  I had been so concerned about things that had happened in her life.  Really was interested and wanted the best for her. Then bang, she blocked me as if I was stalking and harassing her. Of course she has the right, but it just didn't seem that she should have done so, unless I was causing her problems.

 

That is what MM deleted from the blogs.  As you can see I mentioned no name, nor would I.  And as far as I know, this lady has never posted anything to the blogs.  I still want to think she is a nice woman but maybe I'm giving her to much credit.

 

People like you and I, are what keep this site alive.  I'm constantly going through profile making comments.  Some funny, some flirty, some constructive, but comments that keep people feeling that the site is alive.  We all contribute to the blogs and the blogs IMO have suffered in recent months, probably in part due to censorship.  People spend time collecting and writing their thoughts, only to have them removed, then what's the point.  It's just a waste of time and energy.  If everyone starts to feel this way, then the blogs are dead.

 

 

 



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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 07:29

Hi Dak, 

It's disturbing to hear that MM has kept doing this.  My blog on my chicken soup recipe was deleted, of all things.  I called the number on the message MM sent about it, and was told that someone had complained about it.  I don't know if I believe there is a mysterious Mr. X or MS. X that complains about blogs or not.  

I tried to print your blog to document what MM is doing, but I couldn't get my computer to print it.  Do I blame MM?  100%  Is it because they're Canadian?  Well, I never gave a lot of thought to Canadian law, until this happened anyway.  I also felt my freedom of speech was violated.  

Outrageous.  

What do they achieve by destroying their own blog site? 

This is just tragic.  I'm sorry sorry sorry.



Bab : )

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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 06:45

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MM has once again deleted a blog that I posted.  Nothing with what I wrote violated any terms.  I am tired of this and am calling out the one that does this. 

 

I have been a positive contributor to this site for many years and on a few occasion a paying member.  But, I will no longer consider paying for a membership to this site again. (was just about to be a paying member again)  I will not be a patron of a site that clearly has a issue with freedom of speech.  Maybe in Canada, but not in the USA (the greatest country on the planet).

 

Now I can understand if what I wrote violated any of the terms.  And no one could complain as I did not mention any names in my blog.  In fact it concerned no one that has ever posted to the blogs.

 

With all this said, my contributions to the blogs will stop.  I will not be a part of keeping a site active and alive, when they pick and chose what I can and can't say.  And they give no explanation.  I am not the only one that has had this issue.  I'm so angry that I may list MM on the net as a anti-freedom of speech site.  The Internet is a powerful tool.  To say I'm pissed is a understatement.

 

How about a explanation MM???  Instead of just hiding behind the delete key.  Or will you delete this in your quest to limit freedom?

 

Furthermore, you have fake profiles and pornography on your site.  It's been there for years, but you chose to leave it,  as it seem to suit your business model.  Anyone want proof, email me.  And they will say, we can't control what members put on their profile, but they sure can delete our blogs and post. 


Seems MM doesnt like criticisms about its sense swording .....posted a comment here and in a matter of minutes it was pulled


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Posted on Sun, Sep 29, 2013 05:20

Agree 100% u r correct and right!



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