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Posted on Mon, May 27, 2013 20:07

Women are not complicated, they are different from one to the other

Just like men they have similarities but the differences are quite large

Women...it's one journey you would and must want to take

Because at the end of the day you always learn from it

 

Why do men complain so much about women complexity

And yet they are found in their arms, endlessly lost and begging for more?

Do they want to go elsewhere instead? I sure doubt it! The answer is no

But for most of them women are all sort of things..name it!

Deceivers, heart breakers, liars, gold diggers, killers, THE DEVIL...haha

Oh my! That is so sad...why close your heart to woman? They are not perfect

but worth the try..well some of them are atleast even if they are hard to find

 

Truth is woman means manipulation. YES i said it! This is all you need to know

There ain't no secret anywhere, no holy book that explains us...no no and no

Manipulation is in our genes; sometimes it's loving, most of times evil

All you have to do is pick the right card and you are happy for life

Do not question why it is so...because that question do not even have an answer

Of course true love can be found, then again manipulation has to die

And it takes one brave man to kill manipulation and awake love in a woman

Are you ready for that journey gentlemen? I bet you aren't haha..well I am!

But see...you have no choice, be a man, get on a boat and take that journey..

 



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Posted on Thu, May 30, 2013 21:15

I sound like a man? haha I know right....I think you're right ..girls vs women ( big difference ) and yes it takes a gentleman to make a woman a saint lol



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Posted on Thu, May 30, 2013 03:38

Brigitte, you sound like a guy. Really.

 

 

But really. Women, not girls, but women, aren't the devil. If a ...gentleman knows how to handle her, how to listen, than it's quite possible to make a saint out of her, instead.. Hehe.



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Posted on Tue, May 28, 2013 06:03

Quoting Orlando__:

I don't understand the motivation behind manipulation.  What is to be gained by it?  Just to get what one wants or needs?  Why not ask?  I don't get it.



Orland , I hope I would be able to answer , I am a psychotherapist/healer ,Control. Manipulation people who are control freaks and manipulative , they are Insecure , they have low self esteem they want other people to be according to rules dictated by them , They are Self obsessed, self centred induviduals , and selfish .



Manipulation & Control

Definition:

"Manipulation - The practice of baiting an individual or group of individuals into a certain response or reaction pattern for the purpose of achieving a hidden personal goal.

Description:

People who suffer from personality disorders often engage in behaviors which appear manipulative and controlling to those around them."

However, while manipulative acts are deliberate and under the control of the person with the personality disorder, the focal point for the person who suffers from the personality disorder is typically themselves rather than the person they are controlling. Manipulative actions are often done in an attempt to soothe internal feelings or fears by creating a focal point in a close relationship, rather than in an effort to produce certain feelings in others."

"At a psychological level, the art of manipulation primarily involves two things:concealing aggressive intentions and behaviors and knowing the psychological vulnerabilities of your opponent well enough to know what tactics are likely to be the most effective weapons against them. Psychological manipulation is most often accomplished through covert-aggression or aggression that is so carefully veiled or so subtle that it’s not easily detected. Manipulators want what they want and fight hard to attain their goals. But the tactics they use can make it appear like they’re doing almost anything but simply trying to get the better of you. The tactics are also very effective weapons of power and control. That’s because even though they’re hard to recognize as aggressive moves at a conscious level, at an unconscious level others feel backed into a corner and are thrown on the defensive. This makes it more likely that they’ll back down or give in to their manipulator.

 

Skilled manipulators know the vulnerabilities of their opponents. If vanity is someone’s weakness, a seduction tactic might be the best manipulation tactic. If over-conscientiousness is their weakness, perhaps guilt-tripping would be the most effective way to gain the upper hand. Most manipulators have a significant disturbance of character (i.e. have too little conscience or sensitivity). Their easiest prey are neurotic individuals (i.e. people with high levels of sensitivity and conscientiousness). Tactics like Playing the Victim, or Shaming will effectively manipulate the average neurotic because conscientious individuals neither want to see someone else as suffering, nor do they want to feel badly about themselves. "



WE ARE ALL.....BUT.....JUST SPIRITUAL BEINGS.....

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Posted on Mon, May 27, 2013 20:43

There is no motivation behind it, Its just a fact and some people might disagree but that is what I think..In everyday life we manipulate each other but I think with women the rate is higher and I'm talking about manipulation in all aspects.

It actually means controlling..women love to control. And too much controling leads to other nasty aspects of manipulation. I think the reason why they love to control is because they've been taught so. To be a good wife, mother etc...well, you must know how to control your house and all that..I guess. I don't know If I answered Your questions..I don't think I did. But voila that's all I can say. Just felt like writing some thoughts I had in my mind even if I dont quite understand them myself.

And sorry for my english which is probably full of mistakes.



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Posted on Mon, May 27, 2013 20:21

I don't understand the motivation behind manipulation.  What is to be gained by it?  Just to get what one wants or needs?  Why not ask?  I don't get it.



**My top strength is"learning." So, my blogs are learning-focused. ~Orlando

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