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Quoting Queenofyourdreams:
Larry, Larry, Larry, my dove. Where have you been? And why are you talking about peaches? Should I be jeolous? Here I thought you really liked the sweet NC apples...(And where is the spell check!!)
As to dating. First kiss. When the time is right you will know. If it is too fast one or both of the people involved will feel strange. I have been experimenting with this dating game and have discovered that I do not enjoy kissing on the first date, or the second...I am not really sure how long it might take, but...unless I have a mental/emotional/physical connection at some level a kiss does nothing for me. It does not stir my body, or inspire my soul. A man that tries to kiss (and more) right away would do this with any women. (Same with a women kissing a man so quickly) To me, a romantic kiss, or what that might lead into later, is very special and not something that I take (or give) to someone who is not very special in my life
However, I do come from a family of huggers. And find that I am comfortable greeting someone I care about with a hug and a kiss on the cheek. It is not a sexual hug. It is very natural and just seems to happen...Maybe because of the work that I do? When I finish a session with my clients, I often find that they are in the place to reach out and offer me one of those unconditional love hugs.
My advice for you ( if you are talking about you LOL) is to make sure the woman you are interested in will be comfortable riding those muddy hogs before you kiss her. Why waste your time with someone who will not be able to accept the things you like to do? Not many people do ride hogs, much less muddy hogs. What do you think, by the way. How long do you wait before you kiss a woman that you are dating?
Formula for dating. You must be talking online? A few emails, than exchange phone calls. I like to meet them (if I am interested) as soon as I am comfortable and feel safe meeting in a public place. In the beginning of this journey into online dating, I thought I had to spend months on emails..the same on phone calls, before meeting them. Now I know that we all create a fantasy when we take to long. Neither person can live up to the fantasy. And when they meet....no chemistry as they are expecting the fantasy they have built in their minds. I have also found that the chemistry that I might imagine over email and phone calls is often not what I find when I finally meet that person.
Of course, if all anyone is looking for is a quickie or booty call, than none of this matters.
You have brought forth some interesting concepts that many of us are dabating. One thing we can say about this online dating site...there are sooo many choices.
Now, tell us what you think is the formula for online dating?
Larry, Larry, Larry, my dove. Where have you been? And why are you talking about peaches? Should I be jeolous? Here I thought you really liked the sweet NC apples...(And where is the spell check!!)
As to dating. First kiss. When the time is right you will know. If it is too fast one or both of the people involved will feel strange. I have been experimenting with this dating game and have discovered that I do not enjoy kissing on the first date, or the second...I am not really sure how long it might take, but...unless I have a mental/emotional/physical connection at some level a kiss does nothing for me. It does not stir my body, or inspire my soul. A man that tries to kiss (and more) right away would do this with any women. (Same with a women kissing a man so quickly) To me, a romantic kiss, or what that might lead into later, is very special and not something that I take (or give) to someone who is not very special in my life
However, I do come from a family of huggers. And find that I am comfortable greeting someone I care about with a hug and a kiss on the cheek. It is not a sexual hug. It is very natural and just seems to happen...Maybe because of the work that I do? When I finish a session with my clients, I often find that they are in the place to reach out and offer me one of those unconditional love hugs.
My advice for you ( if you are talking about you LOL) is to make sure the woman you are interested in will be comfortable riding those muddy hogs before you kiss her. Why waste your time with someone who will not be able to accept the things you like to do? Not many people do ride hogs, much less muddy hogs. What do you think, by the way. How long do you wait before you kiss a woman that you are dating?
Formula for dating. You must be talking online? A few emails, than exchange phone calls. I like to meet them (if I am interested) as soon as I am comfortable and feel safe meeting in a public place. In the beginning of this journey into online dating, I thought I had to spend months on emails..the same on phone calls, before meeting them. Now I know that we all create a fantasy when we take to long. Neither person can live up to the fantasy. And when they meet....no chemistry as they are expecting the fantasy they have built in their minds. I have also found that the chemistry that I might imagine over email and phone calls is often not what I find when I finally meet that person.
Of course, if all anyone is looking for is a quickie or booty call, than none of this matters.
You have brought forth some interesting concepts that many of us are dabating. One thing we can say about this online dating site...there are sooo many choices.
Now, tell us what you think is the formula for online dating?
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