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BrandieBelle
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Posted on Sat, Jun 24, 2006 22:58

Most girls seldom even get asked out on dates. I know plenty of attractive women, who I would consider "above average" (all things considered) that almost never get asked out. Guys tell me this... In the last 3 months, how many girls have you asked to go out with you? Not including doing so via email...


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Posted on Mon, Jun 26, 2006 17:07

Touche', my friend! It has been quite some time since I asked a guy out. I haven't come across too many that I would consider asking out. The few that I did encounter, were situations where the opportunity did not present itself. Ex) a brief encounter in professional setting. I have asked guys out who accepted and some who did not... Its really not that big of a deal. If a guy doesn't want to date me, there's always another one who will. If I turn a guy down, it doesn't mean he's inadequate in any way shape or form. It simply means that he's not for me. If he makes it mean that he is inadequate, he created that all by himself. In my younger years, it was I who was rejected over and over. A late bloomer...LOL And yes, they are all kicking themselves now! HEE HEE HEE!!


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Posted on Mon, Jun 26, 2006 13:06

The obvious answer is yes, and it almost seems to me that the better looking a woman is, the less she is asked out... at least among those that I've known (especially if you exclude drunk guys). This is probably a good tip for men who are shy or feer asking a woman out. Just the fact that you are able to ask them out at all makes you stand above most of the other people they have encountered. Do it!


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Posted on Mon, Jun 26, 2006 12:27

Certainly men are intimidated by women, whether it is their beauty, their brains, or something else. The only reason we are here (except the married ones) is that we found failure in the past, whether we failed or just picked a lousy partner. But there comes a time when you just have to suck it up and get over your nerves and just ask. Hearing no is no worse than never having asked at all, and every now and then, you get a "yes" that surprises you. Besides, that is what alcohol is for isn't it???


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