When I was young, I have never dream of dating a foreigner. I grew up in an all Chinese family, traditional. I was always very proud of me being Chinese. We've got a lot of culture, history and all that.
And I somehow believe that I should date and marry someone that's also Chinese.
When I went to the States at 16, the thought of dating a non Chinese Amercian had rarely crossed my mind. Nor did I find them particularly attractive at the moment ( I also wasn't that much of a looker at that age. Chinese are late bloomers. We are awful looking when we were teenagers.)
the whole time I was in the states, only dated Asian guys. It was when I went back to hong Kong, I started to see western guys. I remmeber the first time I went out with this gorgeous american lawyer, we were walking on the street, and we ran into a friend of mine, I couldn't threw myself across to the other side of the street faster!!! hahaha
But then, afterwards, somehow the western guys started to appeal to me more and more. To a point, I married one and now have a gorgeous boy. Simply the BEST looking baby ever. Ever since he was born I got calls from magazines and commercials wanting to have him.
I look at the kids at my son's nursery. There are a lot of mix kids. Some asian/caucasian mix, some black white mix, some black asian. You name it, they got it. (it's an international school). And they are generally better looking, healthier, with fewer genetic diseases, fewer allegies.
It really got me wonder. Maybe that's how our future human being should do and God intended it that way. Maybe, a 100 years later, there won't be black people, white people, asian .. (well expect maybe the arabs.. ), we will all be one united color. Beige. and everyone just get along.
What you think? crazy thinking?