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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 11:56

Warning! Before you read this understand that in no way shape or form am I trying to pick at one or more of the fine outstanding members which I call on. So in advance, I apologize to you if within you might get offended or insulted. Know that Insults or offenses are not my intention. It is interesting how instead of using these Blogs to get to know one another, we use them to patronize other members. As I have not been on this On Line Dating system too long I do not really know the rules, is there a manual? Because apparently I am using the blogs wrong. According to what I have read, a Blog starts out with good intention however some members see this as a means of attacking others. I decided to take it easy from work this week and enjoy and explore. With all this time on my hands and nothing really to do - what is a girl to do? Well, I embarked on this adventure called the Blogs. Not only have I read about the same players and their hidden Love/Hate relationships and the way they try to bash each other in a not so politically correct way and like Mr. Shane wrote ?..... One up ....is the grass greener on the other side.....? His blog was supposed to be about something so simple and we took it to the next level and then you add an angry ?Therapist? well, what a twist. Then you also have Mr. Lance and his misspelled word with it meaning of pathological liar (which in his defense might have been a slip of the keys). Well simple comets and simple logic in all. You are dammed in you do and dammed if you don?t as I agree with him that all of us lie at one point or another and Ms. Frankie with all due respect to you, I am also a single mother and always teach my children not to lie, but this self righteous way of thinking you sound just like my older sister. As I too am extremely close and open with my children it does happen, maybe you have not noticed but yes white or dark lie they are all the same. The best statement should have been I try and not lie; I live my life in no drama. You are going to tell me that in your entire life you have not lied? "I don?t think so!" We are innate to it. Also, people worrying about some of us being on line 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Well sweetie maybe we work our own hours, from home and our systems are on all the time. We might even have clients abroad which we might have to stay up for maybe teleconferences and if you had our schedule you would understand. As some countries may have 3, 6, 9, or 12 hours difference. So take a chill pill! As I feel sorry for both Lance and Shane and their constant competition for Miss Erica (who by the way has written such lovely things). Gentlemen, you both seem to be all together men, with all the qualities any woman may adore. (I know I would!) Maybe your expectations might be a little high; however, you both are within your right. Shane, you especially have that Richard Gere look that one can just melt in your eyes, WOW! And Lance you are like a kid in a candy store, so many beautiful, intelligent, women you do not know where to begin. (LOL) Mr. Mark and Will, I see you both here just for the ride, love all your comments even when some are not what some of us want to hear. Freedom of Speech and expression are covered under our constitution and I am all for it. You all have made me smile so much this week, I thank you! In every show there is a ring leader the problem is that we also need a moderator and a director, so figure out which role each has and we might be able to follow instructions better. All of us are here for similar reason, whether it is to find that special someone that completes us and will make us forget about everything around us. The one that will do anything to keep you interested and make is so difficult for you to leave in the morning, at least not without your ?Blessing?. The one that makes you just melt all over and kills you when you are apart. The one that is so cute and will text you with a very provocative message which gives you a smile and natural high while you are in your meetings. Making you want to leave immediately to satisfy your need. Maybe you are looking for friends or advise, or like the three lovely ladies that write so well (well two of them) to get material for a book, like Miss Frankie, Miss Erica and even Miss Therapist herself. Ladies, ladies, ladies, let us know exactly what kind of material you are looking for so we can actually open up to you in private. We all have our own stories and some of us probably a best seller but you will never know unless you ask us. You can probably give John Grisham a run for his money. I am not a writer and would never pretend to be, but like I said, we might have a nice story waiting to be told. This reminds me of High School, the clicks and competition for attention, the who?s who! The cool kids, the nerds, the future farmers, the religious group, the want to be kid, the singer, the actor, the dancer, the writer, the poet. What a wonderful confusing time! Last I heard, I had graduated High School, received my degrees and have tried to make something of myself, but never did it say, go back to the high school scene and all its drama. LOL!!!!! I welcome your comments as long as you keep it nice and clean. As I am not trying to insult anyone just want to know what the H*** we are here for if not to look for our future better half! Best of Luck to all! Blanca


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Blanca_06
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Posted on Tue, Jun 20, 2006 11:02

Thank you ladies for all your nice comments, oh, yes and you too Will. All of us are in for the ride, where it will take us only providence knows. Morning Angel thanks for the warning but I am not a young little girl that cannot see through the masquerade some have. I appreciate but if I begin to judge people, I need to put myself in that same pool as our handy, dandy, therapist. I think she means well in her own way but someone must have hurt her so much that now her over protective mechanism has kicked in and feels she must save all of us damsels in distress, and as far as the big bad wolf, well, little red ridding hood might just have a surprise for him. See, we all must take everything we are told and given as face value. This site like many is only the vice of introduction. It is up to us the patron???s to do our diligence on the fine folks we choose to deal with. Nobody is calling names or pulling websites on anyone, get to know your friends, pretend you are back in time, you are 6 years old at the park and you see a lot of kids playing in the sand box, well you did not have an invitation to go in it, you just go in and find out to see if you are compatible with that new friend. If you hit it off fine if you do not, you just moved on to the next one. You never thought about going overboard with the questions or accusations. It was just a waste of valuable play time. So if we did not do it then, why should we resort to do it now? Think everyone; we are here to make friends, not rivals. We are here because maybe some of us have a lot of time in our hands and this kills time, or simply because somewhere in this world, that person may not have a friend left and needs that company. Someone whom they can feel as if they were that big persona again. All of those things are ok, just enjoy it. Get a cup of tea, sit back, read and relax. By reading all of these you might just learn something about yourself. Not a bad way to spend your break on. Remember that even when you were growing up, we had the rich kid, the poor kid, the struggling musician, the clown, the kid with the higher than thou attitude, the perfect kid and the one that just sat around taking orders from all of them. Don???t sweat it, enjoy it! You might have some laugh, maybe even cry of the reminder of an old time. But above all learn about them as well as yourself. All of these things comprised make us who we are.


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Posted on Tue, Jun 20, 2006 08:20

Very well said Ms Blanca. Some exceptional points made and taken too. I don't know if I show as being online 24/7 but I have found one thing out about this site. I can stay logged on (regardless of my computer being on or off or my working elsewhere on the internet) for days on end. I had someone accuse me of being online once for a good 3 days solid and the only problem was I had been away from my house and computer for 2 1/2 of those days. As you've stated, some of us work different hours then others and some are in different time zones at any given time. I personally stop by the site (especially the blog area) if I have a few minutes to spare on and off during the day and night. I'm glad that you've decided to join the blogs. The best stories I've ever writen have actually come from real people and their lives (names and places changed to protect of course as well as embelishment added to create a smooth flowing story and always I seek permission first). Be a bit careful of who you open up to in private though. Not everyone out there is to be trusted fully. I've found out the hard way on that point. Good luck on this site and in your search too. Leigh


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