Go for a walk Watch an outdoor movie Create your own picnic Go boating Go boating Take a cooking class together or just simply meet for dinner and drinks! lol have fun.
Go for a walk Watch an outdoor movie Create your own picnic Go boating Go boating Take a cooking class together or just simply meet for dinner and drinks! lol have fun.
So you found Monkeyland then, huh? By the way...monkeys don't need all of those toys. They create their own excitement.
Glitter? Isn't that a bit abrasive? And what the duce would you do with bells? You're conjuring up some really weird images here. Have a couple of your tequila martinis and chill down a bit.
You put that sweet little dog in another room. She doesn't need to see her human hanging from a swing and howling.
Quoting Voyager54:
~WindR~...yeah baby...LOTS of toys!...gels, bells, glitter, general mayhem and debauchery! No reason to be pussy footin' around the issue...everybody wants to Wang Chung tonight!
Quoting Voyager54:
~WindR~...yeah baby...LOTS of toys!...gels, bells, glitter, general mayhem and debauchery! No reason to be pussy footin' around the issue...everybody wants to Wang Chung tonight!
So you found Monkeyland then, huh? By the way...monkeys don't need all of those toys. They create their own excitement.
Glitter? Isn't that a bit abrasive? And what the duce would you do with bells? You're conjuring up some really weird images here. Have a couple of your tequila martinis and chill down a bit.
You put that sweet little dog in another room. She doesn't need to see her human hanging from a swing and howling.
I think the best is being yourself to whoever you are dating and let them accept you so. If you enjoy and your idea of a 1st date is doing the above with her, i would say keep up. I think it shows you care to be a good host so if the woman doesn't respond your way, that just means it's not your type and i don't think doing less would change a thing. I think changing your way might even cause more declaines if your dates have these offered by other gentlemen. Well,getting depressed is normal expecially if you are comitted in something with the heart on your both hands. Just don't let it grow or eat you up. I would suggest pre-planing the activity with the date and if you want to stick to surprise, ask indirect if she loves a certain activity which would be the one you have in mind as her suprise and weigh her response. Incase it get really rough, just change the dating circle. Good luck and my best.
Zitiert von Orlando__:
Let me share some actual first dates that didn't even get me a kiss:
Helecopter ride up the California coast followed by fine dining overlooking the ocean at sunset.
Stretch limo ride through California wine country stopping at wineries and a surprise picinic.
Exclusive LA restaurant followed by the LA Philharmonic (front row seats).
Day at Disneyland followed by a meal overlooking the Pirates of the Caribbean ride.
Day at an exclusive California spa followed by dinner overlooking the ocean.
I'm not mentioning the pre-arranged flowers and fine chocolates that went with it all. I could continue on with many more examples, but I'm beginning to get depressed. Somebody kick me.
Zitiert von Orlando__:
Let me share some actual first dates that didn't even get me a kiss:
Helecopter ride up the California coast followed by fine dining overlooking the ocean at sunset.
Stretch limo ride through California wine country stopping at wineries and a surprise picinic.
Exclusive LA restaurant followed by the LA Philharmonic (front row seats).
Day at Disneyland followed by a meal overlooking the Pirates of the Caribbean ride.
Day at an exclusive California spa followed by dinner overlooking the ocean.
I'm not mentioning the pre-arranged flowers and fine chocolates that went with it all. I could continue on with many more examples, but I'm beginning to get depressed. Somebody kick me.
I think the best is being yourself to whoever you are dating and let them accept you so. If you enjoy and your idea of a 1st date is doing the above with her, i would say keep up. I think it shows you care to be a good host so if the woman doesn't respond your way, that just means it's not your type and i don't think doing less would change a thing. I think changing your way might even cause more declaines if your dates have these offered by other gentlemen. Well,getting depressed is normal expecially if you are comitted in something with the heart on your both hands. Just don't let it grow or eat you up. I would suggest pre-planing the activity with the date and if you want to stick to surprise, ask indirect if she loves a certain activity which would be the one you have in mind as her suprise and weigh her response. Incase it get really rough, just change the dating circle. Good luck and my best.
Wow! this is suffocating to read though i muss agree hilarious when you get to details. You made your point! But seriously, neighbours and grabbing cats.....Is that even possible?
Zitiert von Voyager54:
Human beings have gone about this whole dating thing the wrong way for too long now. Social norms need to be reevaluated and probably cast aside.
The normal course of action is ultimately leading up to divorce in most cases. 58% at least here in the US>
First dates should be nothing but sex filled romps...care free...forget all the spit and polish, throw away those crazy ideas of being"nice"...GET IT ON!....down and dirty! Do it all...bring friends! Everybody get in on it!
Ok, ok...calm down...look at this logically...You do the three date three dinners with cocktails champagne etc, all for what?...It's a social dance to get into the sack, nothing else. And hopefully, you hope, that it's going to be awesome.
But those first forays in between the sheets tend to be awkward at best, no matter how much connection you think you may have.
So...first date...SEX BABY...DOWN AND DIRTY...and LOTS OF IT! Three ways, four ways, bring the fricken dog into the mix...leave nothing to chance! Call the neighbors, grab the cat, bring oils and mud, shots of tequilla. Do it all!
This way...if the sex sucks...you can all go your own way, you didn't have to waste money or the time fretting over whether or not the guy would be able to perform, the woman wouldn't be all freaked out about her boobs being fake...too many pubes, too little pubes, little penis on the guy, stretch marks from the ten kids the woman has had, big guts, saggy butts, too dry, too high, too slick, too quick, there is a vast array of issues that befall first timers when hittin' the hay...get naked, open up to the world and speed things along!
Dating is a numbers game...it's like the lotto...you can't win if you don't play. And by old fashioned dating standards, it's akin to standing around the magazine section of the 7-11 looking at photos of Brad or Angelina, instead of buying that lotto ticket and taking a chance!
THAT, is what a REAL first date should be like!.
Exciting stuff eh?
Zitiert von Voyager54:
Human beings have gone about this whole dating thing the wrong way for too long now. Social norms need to be reevaluated and probably cast aside.
The normal course of action is ultimately leading up to divorce in most cases. 58% at least here in the US>
First dates should be nothing but sex filled romps...care free...forget all the spit and polish, throw away those crazy ideas of being"nice"...GET IT ON!....down and dirty! Do it all...bring friends! Everybody get in on it!
Ok, ok...calm down...look at this logically...You do the three date three dinners with cocktails champagne etc, all for what?...It's a social dance to get into the sack, nothing else. And hopefully, you hope, that it's going to be awesome.
But those first forays in between the sheets tend to be awkward at best, no matter how much connection you think you may have.
So...first date...SEX BABY...DOWN AND DIRTY...and LOTS OF IT! Three ways, four ways, bring the fricken dog into the mix...leave nothing to chance! Call the neighbors, grab the cat, bring oils and mud, shots of tequilla. Do it all!
This way...if the sex sucks...you can all go your own way, you didn't have to waste money or the time fretting over whether or not the guy would be able to perform, the woman wouldn't be all freaked out about her boobs being fake...too many pubes, too little pubes, little penis on the guy, stretch marks from the ten kids the woman has had, big guts, saggy butts, too dry, too high, too slick, too quick, there is a vast array of issues that befall first timers when hittin' the hay...get naked, open up to the world and speed things along!
Dating is a numbers game...it's like the lotto...you can't win if you don't play. And by old fashioned dating standards, it's akin to standing around the magazine section of the 7-11 looking at photos of Brad or Angelina, instead of buying that lotto ticket and taking a chance!
THAT, is what a REAL first date should be like!.
Exciting stuff eh?
Wow! this is suffocating to read though i muss agree hilarious when you get to details. You made your point! But seriously, neighbours and grabbing cats.....Is that even possible?
Voyager54...you bad boy...you have such a wicked sense of humor! What you're suggesting is Saturday night (actually any night) at Monkeyland. They jump each other, have gang bangs...and even go solo...all the time. Heard there was an opening in the Gorilla compound...ya might just wanna check that out! Bwhahahahaha!
Voyager54...you bad boy...you have such a wicked sense of humor! What you're suggesting is Saturday night (actually any night) at Monkeyland. They jump each other, have gang bangs...and even go solo...all the time. Heard there was an opening in the Gorilla compound...ya might just wanna check that out! Bwhahahahaha!
There is nothing worse than spending an eveing with someone you can't stand... or having dinner with someone who chews with their mouths open and this is why one should never make complex plans for what should be a simple event... meeting to see if there's chemistry.
If you make complex plans, the other person feels obligated to participate even when they probably wouldn't.
It's far easier to plan simple things and then pull out the big stuff after a few weeks dating...
Ever watch that cow on millionaire match maker? (sorry, can't stand the woman, I think she's rude, mean and horrible at what she does.) But the one part she does get right, she most always puts together mixers and lets people find their own chemistry... once chemistry exist they can move on to dates but those elaborate dates are just TV land stuff and they rarely work out.
There is nothing worse than spending an eveing with someone you can't stand... or having dinner with someone who chews with their mouths open and this is why one should never make complex plans for what should be a simple event... meeting to see if there's chemistry.
If you make complex plans, the other person feels obligated to participate even when they probably wouldn't.
It's far easier to plan simple things and then pull out the big stuff after a few weeks dating...
Ever watch that cow on millionaire match maker? (sorry, can't stand the woman, I think she's rude, mean and horrible at what she does.) But the one part she does get right, she most always puts together mixers and lets people find their own chemistry... once chemistry exist they can move on to dates but those elaborate dates are just TV land stuff and they rarely work out.
There's your problem...what you gonna do for a encore? You're trying to hard and making us other guys look bad. :) It's in the man code book, look it up.
Quoting Orlando__:
Let me share some actual first dates that didn't even get me a kiss:
Helecopter ride up the California coast followed by fine dining overlooking the ocean at sunset.
Stretch limo ride through California wine country stopping at wineries and a surprise picinic.
Exclusive LA restaurant followed by the LA Philharmonic (front row seats).
Day at Disneyland followed by a meal overlooking the Pirates of the Caribbean ride.
Day at an exclusive California spa followed by dinner overlooking the ocean.
I'm not mentioning the pre-arranged flowers and fine chocolates that went with it all. I could continue on with many more examples, but I'm beginning to get depressed. Somebody kick me.
Quoting Orlando__:
Let me share some actual first dates that didn't even get me a kiss:
Helecopter ride up the California coast followed by fine dining overlooking the ocean at sunset.
Stretch limo ride through California wine country stopping at wineries and a surprise picinic.
Exclusive LA restaurant followed by the LA Philharmonic (front row seats).
Day at Disneyland followed by a meal overlooking the Pirates of the Caribbean ride.
Day at an exclusive California spa followed by dinner overlooking the ocean.
I'm not mentioning the pre-arranged flowers and fine chocolates that went with it all. I could continue on with many more examples, but I'm beginning to get depressed. Somebody kick me.
There's your problem...what you gonna do for a encore? You're trying to hard and making us other guys look bad. :) It's in the man code book, look it up.
Orlando, oh my, gosh man, slow down ! Your putting a ton of pressure on these women. Those are some awesome things to do, but wait until you find a special woman. Then let the romance begin.
Quoting Orlando__:
Let me share some actual first dates that didn't even get me a kiss:
Helecopter ride up the California coast followed by fine dining overlooking the ocean at sunset.
Stretch limo ride through California wine country stopping at wineries and a surprise picinic.
Exclusive LA restaurant followed by the LA Philharmonic (front row seats).
Day at Disneyland followed by a meal overlooking the Pirates of the Caribbean ride.
Day at an exclusive California spa followed by dinner overlooking the ocean.
I'm not mentioning the pre-arranged flowers and fine chocolates that went with it all. I could continue on with many more examples, but I'm beginning to get depressed. Somebody kick me.
Quoting Orlando__:
Let me share some actual first dates that didn't even get me a kiss:
Helecopter ride up the California coast followed by fine dining overlooking the ocean at sunset.
Stretch limo ride through California wine country stopping at wineries and a surprise picinic.
Exclusive LA restaurant followed by the LA Philharmonic (front row seats).
Day at Disneyland followed by a meal overlooking the Pirates of the Caribbean ride.
Day at an exclusive California spa followed by dinner overlooking the ocean.
I'm not mentioning the pre-arranged flowers and fine chocolates that went with it all. I could continue on with many more examples, but I'm beginning to get depressed. Somebody kick me.
Orlando, oh my, gosh man, slow down ! Your putting a ton of pressure on these women. Those are some awesome things to do, but wait until you find a special woman. Then let the romance begin.
Let me share some actual first dates that didn't even get me a kiss:
Helecopter ride up the California coast followed by fine dining overlooking the ocean at sunset.
Stretch limo ride through California wine country stopping at wineries and a surprise picinic.
Exclusive LA restaurant followed by the LA Philharmonic (front row seats).
Day at Disneyland followed by a meal overlooking the Pirates of the Caribbean ride.
Day at an exclusive California spa followed by dinner overlooking the ocean.
I'm not mentioning the pre-arranged flowers and fine chocolates that went with it all. I could continue on with many more examples, but I'm beginning to get depressed. Somebody kick me.
Orlando - I thought my experience has been bad! But yours tops mine big time. Sorry, don't mean to be rude, but it got me laughing because it is so unbelievable! So unbelievable because you added the bit that it didn't even get you a kiss! How mean is that? Really?? That is so not fair. Now I see why you are getting depressed - don't blame ya!
Somebody kick me - maybe you should date outside of California and see if that gets you better luck? Try Midwestern States, or even Canada - may be they may be more appreciative of your efforts.
Another thought is you may want to make the first date a lot less pressured - less pomp and peagantry more something casual, and relaxed. If that goes well, and there is Chemistry, with time you can then go all out romantic. That might actually get you better results than this, as the girl feels more relaxed and able to enjoy herself, less pressured and feels more real and down to earth.
Try and see how that goes.
Liv.
Quoting Orlando__:
Let me share some actual first dates that didn't even get me a kiss:
Helecopter ride up the California coast followed by fine dining overlooking the ocean at sunset.
Stretch limo ride through California wine country stopping at wineries and a surprise picinic.
Exclusive LA restaurant followed by the LA Philharmonic (front row seats).
Day at Disneyland followed by a meal overlooking the Pirates of the Caribbean ride.
Day at an exclusive California spa followed by dinner overlooking the ocean.
I'm not mentioning the pre-arranged flowers and fine chocolates that went with it all. I could continue on with many more examples, but I'm beginning to get depressed. Somebody kick me.
Orlando - I thought my experience has been bad! But yours tops mine big time. Sorry, don't mean to be rude, but it got me laughing because it is so unbelievable! So unbelievable because you added the bit that it didn't even get you a kiss! How mean is that? Really?? That is so not fair. Now I see why you are getting depressed - don't blame ya!
Somebody kick me - maybe you should date outside of California and see if that gets you better luck? Try Midwestern States, or even Canada - may be they may be more appreciative of your efforts.
Another thought is you may want to make the first date a lot less pressured - less pomp and peagantry more something casual, and relaxed. If that goes well, and there is Chemistry, with time you can then go all out romantic. That might actually get you better results than this, as the girl feels more relaxed and able to enjoy herself, less pressured and feels more real and down to earth.
0rlando...all of those dates sound awesome...but not for a first date. A simple dinner in a nice restaurant or a picnic on the beach by a campfire is much less intimidating and overwhelming. It would allow you to be able to talk to each other without being under pressure or distracted by the activity around you. You want the focus on the two of you, not all of the exciting things you arranged for the first dates you mentioned.
There are a lot of women out there who's soul focus is on money, but there are just as many who are sincerely interested in getting to know a man for the person he is. It's pretty much a 'given' that a man who has made a lot of money will be intelligent. The question is...does he have the qualities a woman is looking for on a first date...a date that might possibly grow into something more than friendship? You don't know if that person lives their life with integrity, compassion, empathy and the ability to communicate honestly about themselves unless you can spend time talking to them and get to know them.
Are you, somewhere in the back of your mind, thinking that the only reason they accepted your invitation is because of your money? You come across as a man most women would love to get to know...the person you portray in your blogs and profile...not because you can afford a lavish evening that highlights what you can buy, but leaves no quiet time to find out who you are, what you're looking for, and what you believe in. Don't sell yourself short...or the women who accept a date with you. You strike me as a man well worth getting to know.
Just my opinion, but I think all of us deserve to find friends and partners of substance in this life...not a hollow shell that has nothing to give and is just out for what he or she can take.
0rlando...all of those dates sound awesome...but not for a first date. A simple dinner in a nice restaurant or a picnic on the beach by a campfire is much less intimidating and overwhelming. It would allow you to be able to talk to each other without being under pressure or distracted by the activity around you. You want the focus on the two of you, not all of the exciting things you arranged for the first dates you mentioned.
There are a lot of women out there who's soul focus is on money, but there are just as many who are sincerely interested in getting to know a man for the person he is. It's pretty much a 'given' that a man who has made a lot of money will be intelligent. The question is...does he have the qualities a woman is looking for on a first date...a date that might possibly grow into something more than friendship? You don't know if that person lives their life with integrity, compassion, empathy and the ability to communicate honestly about themselves unless you can spend time talking to them and get to know them.
Are you, somewhere in the back of your mind, thinking that the only reason they accepted your invitation is because of your money? You come across as a man most women would love to get to know...the person you portray in your blogs and profile...not because you can afford a lavish evening that highlights what you can buy, but leaves no quiet time to find out who you are, what you're looking for, and what you believe in. Don't sell yourself short...or the women who accept a date with you. You strike me as a man well worth getting to know.
Just my opinion, but I think all of us deserve to find friends and partners of substance in this life...not a hollow shell that has nothing to give and is just out for what he or she can take.
Orlando, I agree with Jenkneee and SydneyRose. Those are over-the-moon dates you listed, and would make a lot of women uncomfortable as a first date if they didn't know you yet.
Perhaps some men think they have to do these lavish things to make a good first impression because of the TV show, "The Bachelor". In reality, most of us 'ladies' want to meet and get to know our suitor first under normal coditions to see if there is any chemistry before we feel comfortable allowing you to treat us like a princess. There are many women who wouldn't care and would just let you spend your money on them even if they don't feel any sparks.
That's why it's important to get to know the woman first to make sure you're not wasting your time and hard-earned money.................... BeWell
Orlando,
I agree with Jenkneee and SydneyRose. Those are over-the-moon dates you listed, and would make a lot of women uncomfortable as a first date if they didn't know you yet.
Perhaps some men think they have to do these lavish things to make a good first impression because of the TV show, "The Bachelor". In reality, most of us 'ladies' want to meet and get to know our suitor first under normal coditions to see if there is any chemistry before we feel comfortable allowing you to treat us like a princess. There are many women who wouldn't care and would just let you spend your money on them even if they don't feel any sparks.
That's why it's important to get to know the woman first to make sure you're not wasting your time and hard-earned money.................... BeWell
BeWell and wishing you only the best ! ..................;-D
I like to keep a first date simple. It is more about meeting and being able to have a conversation while keeping occupied at the same time.
I think a horrible first date idea would be watching a movie. I would not want to sit in silence next to a stranger for two hours in any way.
Good first idea, as simple as it sounds, putt- putt golfing or bowling. You are doing something but you're able to converse too. If the whole date is awkward because there is no chemistry or he or she are incapable of speaking,etc., you are at least able to focus on the activity and then get out ASAP. If that activity goes well, then move on to something else like dinner,etc. Second or third dates is when it can get more personal and enjoyable, in my opinion.
I like to keep a first date simple. It is more about meeting and being able to have a conversation while keeping occupied at the same time.
I think a horrible first date idea would be watching a movie. I would not want to sit in silence next to a stranger for two hours in any way.
Good first idea, as simple as it sounds, putt- putt golfing or bowling. You are doing something but you're able to converse too. If the whole date is awkward because there is no chemistry or he or she are incapable of speaking,etc., you are at least able to focus on the activity and then get out ASAP. If that activity goes well, then move on to something else like dinner,etc.
Second or third dates is when it can get more personal and enjoyable, in my opinion.
Orlando, you need to find your Pretty Woman! I think a lot of girls might get overwhelmed by that on a first date - I certainly would. I think a girl would LOVE it after she got to know you in person. Then she could truly share the moments with you and have fond memories of all those amazing adventures, instead of being nervous and worrying about what you may want in return. I know that's not how you are, but...let her get to know you - not your money.
Anyway, my two cents worth a couple of pesos.
Orlando, you need to find your Pretty Woman! I think a lot of girls might get overwhelmed by that on a first date - I certainly would. I think a girl would LOVE it after she got to know you in person. Then she could truly share the moments with you and have fond memories of all those amazing adventures, instead of being nervous and worrying about what you may want in return. I know that's not how you are, but...let her get to know you - not your money.
Anyway, my two cents worth a couple of pesos.
The brave may not live forever, but the cautious do not live at all.
Let me share some actual first dates that didn't even get me a kiss:
Helecopter ride up the California coast followed by fine dining overlooking the ocean at sunset.
Stretch limo ride through California wine country stopping at wineries and a surprise picinic.
Exclusive LA restaurant followed by the LA Philharmonic (front row seats).
Day at Disneyland followed by a meal overlooking the Pirates of the Caribbean ride.
Day at an exclusive California spa followed by dinner overlooking the ocean.
I'm not mentioning the pre-arranged flowers and fine chocolates that went with it all. I could continue on with many more examples, but I'm beginning to get depressed. Somebody kick me.
Let me share some actual first dates that didn't even get me a kiss:
Helecopter ride up the California coast followed by fine dining overlooking the ocean at sunset.
Stretch limo ride through California wine country stopping at wineries and a surprise picinic.
Exclusive LA restaurant followed by the LA Philharmonic (front row seats).
Day at Disneyland followed by a meal overlooking the Pirates of the Caribbean ride.
Day at an exclusive California spa followed by dinner overlooking the ocean.
I'm not mentioning the pre-arranged flowers and fine chocolates that went with it all. I could continue on with many more examples, but I'm beginning to get depressed. Somebody kick me.
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