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Posted on Fri, May 17, 2013 14:49

A happy life?

 

Everybody on earth has a path to happiness.
It's ridiculously simple.
Honesty, and then, freedom.

 

 

 

Sometimes, people get stuck. This is because of their surrounding friends.

 

You need guys that understand women.

 

All women have a childish side, some have forgotten about it, while others should have had one, and ofcourse, you all need a gentleman.

 

Somebody that offers to help with your seat at the table.

 

 

 

And guys need women. It's the only way of becoming a true gentleman.

 

 

 

Anyway, the answer is honesty. It sets you free.
But in order for it to work, you need to find the right types of people.

 

I've noticed that negative people are all around us. I'm so tired of them. Negativity is caused by lying. Why the fuck would I hide who I am? For what? Life has it's ups and downs. Why would I hide anything? It's who I am. Why would I want to be somebody else? Honesty makes you trully free. And happy.

 

i know it may not seem like much of a revelation, but everyone seems to have forgotten it.



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Posted on Mon, May 27, 2013 15:20

Andrew~

Hmmm….you are definitely the kind…the kind that can catch a woman’s attention.  You’re cute enough and you say all the right things…and…..I have the idea that you probably feel the things that you say.

 

You’re writing is fine.  I can more than understand what you are saying and happen to totally agree with you about what women want.

 

Additionally, I suspect you may be right that you cannot teach ‘it’.  I’ve dated many very accomplished men, that for all my worth, I would have liked it to work out long term.  My girlfriends say to teach him.  While I have tried, I probably need to be honest and say that it was half-hearted.  Either I became too impatient…or he became insulted.  I actually did read some material on how to best try to teach a man.  It hasn’t helped me.  If I have to teach him…my desire seems to evaporate.  A friend told me, that I will not find a great lover in a man that has accomplished financial success.  “He makes love to his career, not women.  That’s why he’s made a lot of money.”

 

Money was never a priority for me when I was young.  I made enough money to have just about anything I ever wanted.  Possibly that’s why I seemed to have hooked up with the guys that were great lovers….but ultimately I ended up supporting them.  I sometimes joke that nurses have a big Red Cross painted on their back.  Today, I still don’t seek vast money…but as you stated, security (protection) has become a more pressing need.  A real job is criteria #1 these days, before I will agree to date.  Lolol….all these men that say they are “Consultants” or “Entrepreneurs” make me run to the nearest exit.  To me, it means they are basically unemployed!!

 

Hmmm….and now for men that own cats.  It has been my experience that men that own cats, seem to know how to touch a woman.  You touch a woman the same way you stroke a cat….with the lay of the hair.  If you try to stroke a cat against the grain…she will leave.  The same with a woman.  During one date, a man ran his hand up my back all the way up to the back of my neck.  His watch tangled in my hair and when he pulled his hand away, ripped out a gob of my hair!!!  Meooowww!!!  Hisssss! 

 

Anyway…it’s a pleasure chatting with you.  Good luck with your quest finding that ONE woman! 

 

PS:  Re: “Stress is humanities greatest problem.”

I agree.  A central problem is the lack of understanding for the complex functioning of the human brain.  How the brain functions, affects a person’s views on justice, personal accounting and decision making, which in turn can have important public policy implications.  Additionally, we are seeing an epidemic of diseases affecting the brain.  At a time when it should be a priority to acquire understanding of this vital organ, it seems unbelievable to me that some in this country support efforts which gut science and innovation.


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Posted on Sun, May 26, 2013 16:52

Diana3316

Excuse me, but ... study? Nothing to study.

Some men are just better than others at seducing women.

All you girls need is: protection, attention, and penis. What most men don't understand is that women would rather have attention, and protection. Sex is everything only for the unballanced minds.

 

 

I focus on what women need on a routine basis(everything comes natural), and then, when it comes to sex, I can be the lousiest lover in existence, and still, women would call me back.

I have a thick penis, and more passion than most men. So how could i fail in satisfying my beloved half?

 

 

 

 

The inept men you speak of, are nothing more(or less) than tired men, who lost interest in making his woman happy, because of their job, and life in general. A happy man, is the best lover.

It is so simple. Both men, and women need to live a relaxed life, in order to be able to be part of a successful relationship. Stress is humanities biggest problem.

 

You've asked: "Why aren’t there classes about such things?"

Because this subject can not be taught. A man needs to feel this. No teacher can ever explain to a student the "secret" of how to touch a woman.

 

You've said: "One thing is for sure….if a man wants to have sex with a woman….it works best if it is her idea."

I would never have sex with a woman, if I came up with the idea.

Actually, I would much rather become friends with her, first.

If she can resist me, fine, I can cope with the idea of not having sex with her.

Actually, I prefer, and really respect a friendship with a woman.


I must appologise for my lack of writing skills with the above, and below texts, but this subject is forcing me to relax, mentally.

Elegantly portraying the ideologies I feel towards women, is close to impossible, due to the passion hidden inside my heart.

 

I would appreciate it if you understood that in my mind, women are nothing more, or less, than a finely tuned love machine. Push the right buttons, and ANY girl, no matter her age, can offer so much love. I've learned that thanks to 4 years of almost complete solitude.

 

I seek only ONE woman, because every other man desires 1000(and a million other reasons, ofcourse).

Women are not objects. They are the answer to all the problems humanity is struggling with at this moment in time.



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Posted on Sat, May 25, 2013 07:52

Andrew~

Hmm….you said, “men need sex”.   So then why, don’t men study how to get it???

 

I read from a Frenchman:  “There is no such thing as a frigid woman….only inept men.”  It seems the older I get, the more inept men I run into.  While there are some men that seem to innately know how to touch a woman and set up the seduction; these are men that truly like women…..however many….don’t seem to have a basic clue.

 

Why aren’t there classes about such things?  Are there books?  One thing is for sure….if a man wants to have sex with a woman….it works best if it is her idea.  Kissing her three times and then pushing her toward the bedroom, saying, “Com’on babe, let’s go”…..typically ends badly!!!  *wink*  :))



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Posted on Fri, May 24, 2013 22:58

Quoting Diana3316:

Andrew~

I seemed to have missed your blog.  It's a good one and you pose some interesting ideas.

 

So...I'm going to ask you.....why do you think some people hate?  Where does such an emotion generate from?  Of course there can be some causes that may seem rational....like maybe someone comes and kills your child or perhaps even your whole village....but then there also seems to be the kind of hatred that just seems to exist for little empiral reason.



It's ridiculously simple. People hate, because they're frustrated.

 

One of their(not mine) biggest frustratopm, is that they can't truly satisfy a woman.

 

 

 

A 40 year old attourney has taught me that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Negative thinking generates frustration.
The most negative people, have nothing to talk about.

 

With honesty as your main goal, you always find a reason to talk.

 

The true task of women is to calm men. How?

 

Women need honesty, and men need sex.

 

 

 

There are many factors that create hatred.

 

 

 


The truth sets you free. It creates an endless loop. Honesty attracts a positive thinking.

 

Truth be told, only women, and very few men, can still understand that a life without honesty isn't worth living. Nobody wants to live in a lie.

 

 

 

 

 

I feed on female emotions. But feeding on more than one at a time, can overwhelm me. This is why I need just one at a time. Because each woman is unique.

 

And so are the men.



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Posted on Fri, May 24, 2013 13:34

Quoting Hoping4Love2000:

Well HELLO New blogger ANDREWBB---

 

WELCOME to the boards.. I'm Hope and I'll be guiding your tour today!  :)

 

I scrolled way down on the list and saw a new name and wanted to check it out!

 

I try to give everyone the courtesy of responding to their thoughts when I have time. 

 

I must say ANDREW-- Your blog is thought provoking.. 

 

I understand the HONESTY part... In fact, I noticed you are atheist; but, for those of us who "believe," we are taught, "The TRUTH shall set you FREE!" So I find it ironic that regardless of our differences, we hold the same premise for FREEDOM. 

 

 

I feel in order for one to find true happiness, they must first be "honest with themselves.

 

This is not always an easy achievement. Many of us have falters and failures we would often rather not face. Our demon is just THAT MUCH LARGER THAN LIFE! I know I have been through the ringer of this myself during my divorce many years ago... 

 

SO -- I would like to take your thoughts just ONE STEP FURTHER...... 

 

I have found the "Key to TRUE FREEDOM" is ................."FORGIVENESS​"... 

 

"FORGIVENESS" of others, but most often times, FORGIVENESS OF OURSELVES.. 

Forgiveness frees us from pain inflicted upon us by others; but additionally frees us from pain we have inflicted upon ourselves... 

UN-forgiveness is like a noose we hang around our own neck... 

We wear it like baggage, as it weights us down... 

THAT is what leads to the anger and frustration you speak of in your profile. 

OZZY has one of my favorite songs you might really enjoy.

Google OZZY DREAMER when you get a chance. 

Your thoughts and profile reminded me of this beautiful, yet sad song.. 

 

When we learn to address FORGIVENESS within our spirit and "LET GO,"

THAT is where we find "TRUE HAPPINESS...." 

This cannot be accomplished without being HONEST with ourselves. 

 

GUILT is an evil entity to live in... 

 

NEGATIVITY is a stem of GUILT.. 

I am a big believer in "acceptance" of others ANDREW, and I try not to judge, as we never know what shoes another has walked in. We don't always realize, many people had no shoes as they walked their path..... It's always easy to drive from the back seat!

 

So while I concur with your HONESTY ideals.. I believe to "FORGIVE IS OUR DIVINE FREEDOM." 

 

I enjoyed your simple analogy of how men and women NEED each other. YES WE DO! 

 

I also enjoyed the COMPROMISE post! LOL... 

 

WELCOME to the blogs young man! It's always nice to gather others insights! 



Hello Hope, and thank you for your warm welcoming.

I would like to start off by saying that your beauty intimidated me for a little while. You have beautiful eyes.

And your profile photo is by far the worst in your gallery. Was it an intentional "trap" to discourage shallow people from visiting your profile?

 



You said:


I understand the HONESTY part... In fact, I noticed you are atheist; but, for those of us who "believe," we are taught, "The TRUTH shall set you FREE!" So I find it ironic that regardless of our differences, we hold the same premise for FREEDOM.


Religion is a sensitive subject to discuss now, because we know nothing about each other.
Long story short, God is real, but you will not find him in any church. He's all around us.

I would encourage you to FEEL, rather than be taught.

Honesty. Hope, I know that in your eyes I am nothing but a childish man, when in reality this body holds a mind that, given the right conditions, has the power to impress nearly any woman, as long as she's willing to listen.

You said:


This is not always an easy achievement. Many of us have falters and failures we would often rather not face. Our demon is just THAT MUCH LARGER THAN LIFE! I know I have been through the ringer of this myself during my divorce many years ago...


You may find this funny, but we seem to have had a similar battle. In my case there was a three year relationship with, what I belived back then, to be the love of my life. Time hasn't just healed my wounds, but it also allowed me to focus on where everything went wrong. And you may not believe this, but the bigest disaster of my life turned out to be the lesson of a life time. This lesson should be learned by all men, in order to be capable of offering the love any woman deserves, and needs to be caressed by.

Please, try not to view your divorce as a bad thing.
When life closes a door, it opens a new one. You just need to keep your eyes peeled(just like in your profile photo).

You said:


"FORGIVENESS" of others, but most often times, FORGIVENESS OF OURSELVES..
Forgiveness frees us from pain inflicted upon us by others; but additionally frees us from pain we have inflicted upon ourselves...
UN-forgiveness is like a noose we hang around our own neck...
We wear it like baggage, as it weights us down...
THAT is what leads to the anger and frustration you speak of in your profile.
OZZY has one of my favorite songs you might really enjoy.
Google OZZY DREAMER when you get a chance.
Your thoughts and profile reminded me of this beautiful, yet sad song..


Can you, dearest Hope, accept that I have no baggage? I do admit of having a small... box.

Funny you mentioned Ozzy Osbourne. May I also embrace you with one of his songs?
"Life won't wait for you", by this wonderful, yet lunatic artist.

Feel free to call me a dreamer, but I arrived to this simple, yet elegant solution:
Women who come in contact with me shall always be embraced by sincerity. No matter what. If I can't be honest to a woman, than we won't be able to have the relationship I(we) so desperately need.


 I balance this, by allowing myself to lie to men. (if I ever feel the need to, that is)

Most men are strong. They can take it.

There are so many thoughts rushing through my mind regarding this subject.

 



You wrote:


I enjoyed your simple analogy of how men and women NEED each other. YES WE DO!
 
I also enjoyed the COMPROMISE post! LOL...


All men I know have this saying: "Women: you can't live with them, or without them".

Those men are ridiculous, and know nothing about the beautiful subject that is YOU.


You wrote:


WELCOME to the blogs young man! It's always nice to gather others insights!


Thank you, young lady.



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Posted on Tue, May 21, 2013 23:09

Andrew~

I seemed to have missed your blog.  It's a good one and you pose some interesting ideas.

 

So...I'm going to ask you.....why do you think some people hate?  Where does such an emotion generate from?  Of course there can be some causes that may seem rational....like maybe someone comes and kills your child or perhaps even your whole village....but then there also seems to be the kind of hatred that just seems to exist for little empiral reason.



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Posted on Sun, May 19, 2013 13:35

Well HELLO New blogger ANDREWBB---

 

WELCOME to the boards.. I'm Hope and I'll be guiding your tour today!  :)

 

I scrolled way down on the list and saw a new name and wanted to check it out!

 

I try to give everyone the courtesy of responding to their thoughts when I have time. 

 

I must say ANDREW-- Your blog is thought provoking.. 

 

I understand the HONESTY part... In fact, I noticed you are atheist; but, for those of us who "believe," we are taught, "The TRUTH shall set you FREE!" So I find it ironic that regardless of our differences, we hold the same premise for FREEDOM. 

 

 

I feel in order for one to find true happiness, they must first be "honest with themselves.

 

This is not always an easy achievement. Many of us have falters and failures we would often rather not face. Our demon is just THAT MUCH LARGER THAN LIFE! I know I have been through the ringer of this myself during my divorce many years ago... 

 

SO -- I would like to take your thoughts just ONE STEP FURTHER...... 

 

I have found the "Key to TRUE FREEDOM" is ................."FORGIVENESS"... 

 

"FORGIVENESS" of others, but most often times, FORGIVENESS OF OURSELVES.. 

Forgiveness frees us from pain inflicted upon us by others; but additionally frees us from pain we have inflicted upon ourselves... 

UN-forgiveness is like a noose we hang around our own neck... 

We wear it like baggage, as it weights us down... 

THAT is what leads to the anger and frustration you speak of in your profile. 

OZZY has one of my favorite songs you might really enjoy.

Google OZZY DREAMER when you get a chance. 

Your thoughts and profile reminded me of this beautiful, yet sad song.. 

 

When we learn to address FORGIVENESS within our spirit and "LET GO,"

THAT is where we find "TRUE HAPPINESS...." 

This cannot be accomplished without being HONEST with ourselves. 

 

GUILT is an evil entity to live in... 

 

NEGATIVITY is a stem of GUILT.. 

I am a big believer in "acceptance" of others ANDREW, and I try not to judge, as we never know what shoes another has walked in. We don't always realize, many people had no shoes as they walked their path..... It's always easy to drive from the back seat!

 

So while I concur with your HONESTY ideals.. I believe to "FORGIVE IS OUR DIVINE FREEDOM." 

 

I enjoyed your simple analogy of how men and women NEED each other. YES WE DO! 

 

I also enjoyed the COMPROMISE post! LOL... 

 

WELCOME to the blogs young man! It's always nice to gather others insights! 



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Posted on Fri, May 17, 2013 16:03

Please, feel free to ask me anything.
I have no idea how, but I've managed to understand everything, and everyone.
Except for the freemasons. Yet.


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Posted on Fri, May 17, 2013 15:51

Compromises don't work.


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Posted on Fri, May 17, 2013 15:49

Isn't it simpler to just admit it already?

I've been poor, and now I have money.
During the process I managed to understand both worlds.

People with money think they're better. I seem to be in this situation right now.

 


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Posted on Fri, May 17, 2013 15:44

Can you face the truth?


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Posted on Fri, May 17, 2013 15:42

Funny thing is, everyone seems to have forgotten this detail..


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