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Quoting alluringelektra:
Women Desire
Women desire many things in this life. They expect to be loved and cherished. Moreover, as a child, they look to their father for love and understanding. In fact, the way the father treats the mother in front of them often dictates the type of woman they will end up and the things they will desire in their life, especially the type of man that they will envision to spend the rest of their life with on this planet. Regardless of her past and experiences, as a woman her desires often correlate with that of other women, contemplating about the universal things that women across cultures ponder - that is what women truly desire in life: Is it money, a good career, a man who will love and cherish them through all the highs and lows of life, making them feel like a woman, the center of their life after G-d. In the end, we all admit that this is one of the most challenging questions of all time. As a woman, sometimes I thought that what men want is difficult, but when you think about it, it is even harder to imagine what women truly desire.
Illustrating, growing up as a woman, we have dreams and many times those dreams include finding a perfect man, a man that is affectionate, a great lover, a superb listener - a man who is caring and much more. This man must fulfill the woman’s inner heart desire, being her bright and shinning armor. There is not a woman on this planet who does not dream of finding someone that lights her up, making her world turn the second that he walks through the door. In the end, every woman would like a wealthy successful man with a perfect body.
It is true that some women only desire rich men, though it depends on the woman and her definition of “rich”. It is true that there are a lot of women out there that can be classified as “gold-diggers”, whose primary objective is to strictly date men who are comfortable financially in order to acquire as much of his capital as possible. These are the women that make the rest of us look bad. They’re money-motivated, usually highly attractive and/or manipulative with no concept of loyalty. For that group of women, playing a man and/or taking advantage of a man for his money is all about being independent. Therefore, they have a very messed up view of what it means to be an independent woman. Surely, there are many in this post-modern society that would agree and agrees with their destructive concept of independence. After all, living in an highly liberal world almost everyone is entitled to their own views, no matter how vicious and immoral or amoral it is. However, at the end of the day, women as such along with their supporters make the rest of us look bad, destroying what it means to be a good independent woman. Preying on wealthy men does not define independence, rather it destroys the very idea of what it means to be a woman whose desire is to let men know she is their equal. At the end of the day, we must then ask and wonder what is it that a good woman, who is tired of playing gender games, truly desire from a man.
In the end, the answer is quite clear. A true woman who is searching for the man of her dreams is not looking for a man with an account full of “Benjamins”, but for a man to truly love and respect her as well as care for her in all ways - a man that will be there through thick and thin. When the rainy days come, she will find comfort in him, being able to lean on him and trusting in him with all that she is. This man will truly be the honey that sweetens her heart so that when the words depart from her lips she will melt. But the question, the quest that we women find ourselves on since our existence on this planet and the frustrations that come along with it remain long after we find ourselves walking down the aisle. All in all, when all is said and done, this lasting and nagging question remains, how do we find that man who will cherish us for the rest of our lives?
Women Desire
Women desire many things in this life. They expect to be loved and cherished. Moreover, as a child, they look to their father for love and understanding. In fact, the way the father treats the mother in front of them often dictates the type of woman they will end up and the things they will desire in their life, especially the type of man that they will envision to spend the rest of their life with on this planet. Regardless of her past and experiences, as a woman her desires often correlate with that of other women, contemplating about the universal things that women across cultures ponder - that is what women truly desire in life: Is it money, a good career, a man who will love and cherish them through all the highs and lows of life, making them feel like a woman, the center of their life after G-d. In the end, we all admit that this is one of the most challenging questions of all time. As a woman, sometimes I thought that what men want is difficult, but when you think about it, it is even harder to imagine what women truly desire.
Illustrating, growing up as a woman, we have dreams and many times those dreams include finding a perfect man, a man that is affectionate, a great lover, a superb listener - a man who is caring and much more. This man must fulfill the woman’s inner heart desire, being her bright and shinning armor. There is not a woman on this planet who does not dream of finding someone that lights her up, making her world turn the second that he walks through the door. In the end, every woman would like a wealthy successful man with a perfect body.
It is true that some women only desire rich men, though it depends on the woman and her definition of “rich”. It is true that there are a lot of women out there that can be classified as “gold-diggers”, whose primary objective is to strictly date men who are comfortable financially in order to acquire as much of his capital as possible. These are the women that make the rest of us look bad. They’re money-motivated, usually highly attractive and/or manipulative with no concept of loyalty. For that group of women, playing a man and/or taking advantage of a man for his money is all about being independent. Therefore, they have a very messed up view of what it means to be an independent woman. Surely, there are many in this post-modern society that would agree and agrees with their destructive concept of independence. After all, living in an highly liberal world almost everyone is entitled to their own views, no matter how vicious and immoral or amoral it is. However, at the end of the day, women as such along with their supporters make the rest of us look bad, destroying what it means to be a good independent woman. Preying on wealthy men does not define independence, rather it destroys the very idea of what it means to be a woman whose desire is to let men know she is their equal. At the end of the day, we must then ask and wonder what is it that a good woman, who is tired of playing gender games, truly desire from a man.
In the end, the answer is quite clear. A true woman who is searching for the man of her dreams is not looking for a man with an account full of “Benjamins”, but for a man to truly love and respect her as well as care for her in all ways - a man that will be there through thick and thin. When the rainy days come, she will find comfort in him, being able to lean on him and trusting in him with all that she is. This man will truly be the honey that sweetens her heart so that when the words depart from her lips she will melt. But the question, the quest that we women find ourselves on since our existence on this planet and the frustrations that come along with it remain long after we find ourselves walking down the aisle. All in all, when all is said and done, this lasting and nagging question remains, how do we find that man who will cherish us for the rest of our lives?
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