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Expose as many cheaters, liars and abusers to the world as you can. Help out other daters, and those currently in relationships, avoid the risks associated with being or getting involved with cheaters, liars and or abusers. Think your mate has cheated in the past? Do you know someone who is being, or has been, cheated on or abused? Maybe you were in a relationship with someone, only to find out that you were, in fact, the extramarital affair. Don't just get mad....speak out! If you have your own story of abuse, lets hear hear about it. This could keep the next potential victim from wasting their time with this person. So take your time and look around, or simply post the names, city and description of a person who did you wrong. The world needs to read your story. All of our members on MM need to know Your story will remain strictly confidential.
Just wondered if someone here may feel this way and could shed some light for me as to why some people hate birthdays?
I understand there's the jokes about aging - body malfunctions and deterioration that comes with it and then there's the whole big fuss about it etc but seriously...its just another day but this one would be special to you.
What's so bad about someone wishing you a good happy one or giving you a small gift? The only two cons I can see is if something 'negative' happened on this special day to make you totally hate it OR if this means a family gathering with relatives you do not wish to see.
Why do some people seem to go out of their way to give others a losing mentality? They will rain on whatever parade someone else is trying to have. Is it because they lack the gumption to try to do better and are afraid they will be left behind should their friends and family actually succeed? Do they feel so much like losers that they have to always try to have someone behind them to not feel like they are at the back of the pack? Who was the last dream killer who tried to give you a loser’s mentality
Communication is everything in a relationship, money is important but it should not be the foundation of a relationship. having fun and trust is the key to a happy relationship. appearance is important but personality is more important.
If you can have an educational conversation with someone they are worth your time. If you Find a easy going and very kind. person do not take take them for granted.
Most people want what they can not have and take for granted what they have, until they lose something they have, people realize what they had was very valuable and they want it back. most of the time they can not have it back. so if you have some one that is a good person keep that person, do not take that person for granted because if you do somebody else will appreciate that person more and will have that person and you will be left alone trying to find the same person you took for granted.
No man or woman is worth your tears and the only one who is will never make you cry
If you love someone, put their name in a circle,instead of a heart, because hearts can break, but circles go on forever~*~
Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say
If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn't jump with them, I'd be at the bottom to catch them
It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
I expect to pass through this life but once If, therefore there be any kindness I can show or any good thing I can do for any fellow being let me do it now...as I shall not pass this way again.
When at the end of your life, you look back on it, and know that out of all the people you knew, that you had one True friend... You can also look back on your life and know that although you had no silver or gold,
"You can consider yourself a very very wealthy person"
Someone who is passionate about life, themselves and who they are with. Someone who does not walk in front of me, I may not follow; nor behind me in my shadow; but beside me to be each others strength. By Me
The Kama Sutra is a group of Indian texts written by a scholar named Vatsyayana Mallanaga. The term Kama Sutra is derived from two Sanskrit words Kama and Sutra which means desire and guide respectively; when translated literally, Kama Sutra means a Treatise on Pleasure.
As known by the masses, the Indian Kama Sutra is a classic text used as a guide to love making and also as a reflection of the social traditions of India. A lot of people who have read or have heard about the Kama Sutra simply see the book as a manual on unconventional sexual positions; however, the Indian Kama Sutra is viewed by scholars as a classic text with historical importance. The book is about living, with texts on how to find a partner, how to maintain a marriage, and how to perform sexual intercourse.
Man has three chief goals in life, according to the Indian Kama Sutra. These goals are duty and responsibility for one's actions or Dharma; the acquisition of power through wealth and politics or Arta; and pleasure or Kama.
The book has several sections that give advice on how to live one's life. The initial chapters of the book discuss man's three main priorities, how to acquire knowledge, the behavior of a townsman brought up with good breeding and many other items. The second section details the sexual positions and techniques. This is only one small part of the book; however this section focused on the sexual positions has given the book its popularity in the Western world. The succeeding sections discuss such topics as how to acquire a wife, the duty of a wife, the behavior of men and women, courtesans, and how to attract others by improving one's physical attractiveness.
There are originally just eight positions detailed on the book, and eight variations per position, making a total of sixty four positions in all. There are several categories on the art of love making as detailed in the Indian Kama Sutra written by Vatsyayana. These categories are the sitting positions, the standing positions, the rear-entry positions, the woman on top positions, and the man on top positions.
People who choose to read the Indian Kama Sutra should read the book as a whole and try to apply the advice and teachings discussed in the book to real life. It should also be kept in mind that the book is not merely a guide on how to perform sex, but as a guide on how to live one's life better and to establish better relationships with the people around him.
Tantra is a spiritual tradition that originated in India some 4,000 years ago. It is a way of life that celebrates and strives for the union of body, mind and spirit. Tantra is a form of yoga. Yoga means union. The ultimate purpose of Tantra is a union of lovers, and union with the divine, with God. In the Tantric tradition, sexuality and spirituality are joined. Lovers actually invite God right into their bed!
For me, Tantra is the art of living consciously on all levels, including the sexual. When we connect sexually with the intention of expanding our consciousness, we use our senses to propel ourselves beyond the restriction of physical reality, and unite with the true essence of who we really are. The great frustrations and pressures that most of us endure in our lives need to be balanced by deep pleasure that nourishes both the body and the soul.
Tantra teaches us to enhance our pleasure and to become mature lovers. The pleasure that we learn to give to ourselves and to our loved ones creates harmony in human relationships and ultimately in the whole world.
I love Tantra because it honors not just the light and the angelic, but also the dark and the demonic side of life. In Tantra, we learn to acknowledge and to deal with negativity with respect, courage and compassion, and to harness that power for the good of all concerned.
It has become clear to me that Tantra is one of the fastest and most effective ways to heal the body/mind separation and to elevate the spirit. Through Tantra, we can gain the sense of belonging and of self-esteem so vital to successful living.
My dreams are once more, to find this woman whom I can share my life with in a true embrace of earthly delights.You are a beautiful soul who recognizes intimacy is a missing piece in the puzzle of your life. You are running to life, not away from life and responsibility. You are very busy doing and being your own life. You want and need a man, a gentle, kind, loving, intelligent, free-spirited man to fill that spot to make your life perfect. No head games, drugs, or power struggles, no fighting for a future. Just living in the now, letting the future take care of itself. You can live in a wonderful, soft, sexy intimate, sacred now. Another step on the journey to knowing and owning yourself.
She will deserve to be with me as much as I deserve to be with her, with respect and honesty. She will adore the one man she chooses to live life with and be adored in return. I do believe though, that if you look for love you will not find it... If it is meant to be, it WILL happen! I am NOT looking for a woman I can live with, I am looking for the woman I cannot live without.
There is a much greater motivation that simply my spoken words. For me to love, is to commit myself, freely and without reservation. I am sincerely interested in your happiness and wellbeing. Whatever your needs are, I will try to fulfill them and will bend in my values depending on the importance of your need. If you are lonely and need me, I will be there. If in that loneliness you need to talk, I will listen.
I you need to listen, I will talk. If you need the strength of human touch, I will touch you. If you need to be held, I will hold you. I will lie naked in body with you if that be your need. If you need fulfillment of the flesh, I will give that also, but only through my love.
I will try to be constant with you so that you will understand the core of my personality and from that understanding you can gain strength and security that I am acting as me. I may faulter with my moods. I may project, at times, a strangeness that is alien to you which may bewilder or frighten you. There will be times when you question my motives. But because people are never constant and are as changeable as the seasons, I will try to build up within you a faith in my fundamental attitude and show you that my inconsistency is only for the moment and not a lasting part of me.
I will show you love now. Each and every day, for each day is a lifetime. Every day we live, we learn more how to love. I will not defer my love nor neglect it, for if I wait until tomorrow, tomorrow never comes. It is like a cloud in the sky, passing by. They always do, you know!If I give you kindness and understanding, then I will receive your faith. If I give hate and dishonesty, I will receive your distrust. If I give you fear and am afraid, you will become afraid and fear me. I will give to you what I need to receive.
I will give you as much love as I can. If you show me how to give more, then I will give more. I can only give as much as you need to receive or allow me to give.Namaste
A time comes in your life when you finally get it. When in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out - ENOUGH!
Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on. And, like a child quieting down after a blind tantrum, your sobs begin to subside, you shudder once or twice, you blink back your tears and through a mantle of wet lashes you begin to look at the world through new eyes.
This is your awakening. You realize that it's time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change, or for happiness, safety and security to come galloping over the next horizon. You come to terms with the fact that he is not Prince Charming and you are not Cinderella and that in the real world there aren't always fairy tale endings (or beginnings for that matter), and that any guarantee of "happily ever after" must begin with you, and in the process a sense of serenity is born of acceptance.
You awaken to the fact that you are not perfect, and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what you are and its OK. (They are entitled to their own views and opinions.) And you learn the importance of loving and championing yourself, and in the process a sense of newly found confidence is born of self-approval.
You stop bitching and blaming other people for the things they did to you (or didn't do for you) and you learn that the only thing you can really count on is the unexpected. You learn that not everyone will always be there for you, and that it's not always about you. So, you learn to stand on your own and to take care of yourself and in the process a sense of safety and security is born of self-reliance.
You stop judging and pointing fingers, and you begin to accept people as they are, and to over look their shortcomings and human frailties and in the process a sense of peace and contentment is born of forgiveness.
You realize that much of the way you view yourself, and the world around you, is a result of all the messages and opinions that have been ingrained into your psyche. And you begin to sift through all the crap you've been fed about how you should behave, how you should look, how much you shouldn't weigh, what you should wear, where you should shop, what you should drive, how and where you should live, what you should do for a living, who you should sleep with, who you should marry, what you should expect of a marriage, the importance of having and raising children, or what you owe your parents.
You learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view. And you begin reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really stand for. You learn the difference between wanting and needing, and you begin to discard the doctrines and values you've outgrown, or should never have bought into to begin with, and in the process you learn to go with your instincts. You learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility, and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO. You learn that the only cross to bear is the one you choose to carry, and that martyrs get burned at the stake.
Then you learn about love. Romantic love and familial love. How to love, how much to give in love, when to stop giving, and when to walk away. You learn not to project your needs or your feelings onto a relationship. You learn that you will not be more beautiful, more intelligent, more lovable, or important because of the man or woman on your arm or the child that bears your name.
You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would have them be. You stop trying to control people, situations, and outcomes. You learn that just as people grow and change, so it is with love, and you learn that you don't have the right to demand love on your terms. Just to make you happy. And, you learn that 'alone' does not mean lonely.
And you look in the mirror and come to terms with the fact that you will never be a perfect 10 and you stop trying to compete with the image inside your head and agonizing over how you "stack up." You also stop working so hard at putting feelings aside, smoothing things over, and ignoring your needs.
You learn that feelings of entitlement are perfectly OK. . . and that it is your right to want things that you want.... and that sometimes it is necessary to make demands. You come to the realization that you deserve to be treated with love, kindness, sensitivity, and respect, and you will not settle for less. And you allow only the hands of a lover who cherishes you, to glorify you with his or her touch. and in the process you internalize the meaning of self-respect.
And you learn that your body really is your temple. You begin eating a balanced diet, drinking more water, and taking more time to exercise. You learn that fatigue diminishes the spirit and can create doubt and fear, so you take more time to rest. And, just as food fuels the body, laughter fuels our soul, so you take more time to laugh and to play.
You learn that, for the most part, in life you get what you believe you deserve. and that much of life is a self-fulfilling prophecy. You learn that anything worth achieving is worth working for, and that wishing for something to happen is different from working toward making it happen. More importantly, you learn that in order to achieve success, you need direction, discipline, and perseverance.
You also learn that no one can do it all alone and its OK to risk asking for help. You learn that the only thing you must truly fear is the great robber baron of all time: FEAR itself. You learn to step right into and through your fears, because you know that whatever happens you can handle it, and to give in to fear is to give away the right to live life on your terms.
You learn to fight for your life and not to squander it living under a cloud of impending doom. You learn that life isn't always fair, you don't always get what you think you deserve, and that sometimes bad things happen to unsuspecting, good people. On these occasions you learn not to personalize things. You learn that God isn't punishing you or failing to answer your prayers. It's just life happening. And you learn to deal with evil in its most primal state - the ego.
You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy, and resentment must be understood and redirected, or they will suffocate the life out of you and poison the universe that surrounds you.
You learn to admit when you are wrong and to build bridges instead of walls. You learn to be thankful and to take comfort in many of the simple things we take for granted, things that millions of people upon the earth can only dream about a full refrigerator, clean running water, a soft warm bed, a long hot shower. Slowly, you begin to take responsibility for yourself, by yourself, and you try to make yourself a promise to never betray yourself and to never ever settle for less than your heart's desire. And you hang a wind chime outside your window so you can listen to the wind. And you make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting, and to stay open to every wonderful possibility.
Finally, with courage in your heart and with God by your side, you take a stand, you take a deep breath, and you begin to design the life you want to live as best as you can
Inherent existing does not mean that one is aware. awareness does mean that one exists. awareness does not mean that one will love or be loved yet the only reason I believe we are on this earth is to learn this.
Some learn early, some late, some never do. I do believe that the energy which is the sould can transform itself endlessly and continue.
Those who have the compassion to love others first have learned to love themselves. Those who do not love themselves cannot love. The sanskrit has 11 words for love while english, piteously, has but one.
That which i seek is the love of a woman; I seek a woman to love as well. This love would encompass all passions, bespeak of the sorrow of being apart, rejoice in tender unions, cry tears when the other is sad and blissfully share moments of heaven in passionate moments together.
My life has been very full, yet very lonely. I am unique, enigmatic and very loving, yet have just once really found one to love. My dreams are once more, to find this woman whom i can share my life with in a true embrace of earthly delights.
You are a beautiful soul who recognizes that intimacy is a missing piece in the puzzle of your life. You are running to life, not away from life and responsibility. You are very busy doing and being your own life.
You want and need a man, a gentle, kind, loving, intelligent, free-spirited man to fill that spot to make your life perfect. No head games, drugs or power struggles, no fighting for a future.
Just living in the now, letting the future take care of itself. You can live in a wonderful, soft, sexy, intimate, sacred now. Another step on the journey to knowing and owning yourself.
Love does not care if you are fat or thin, Love does not care if you are tall or short, Love does not care if you are with hair or not, Love does not care if you are white/black/yellow/brown/red, Love does not care if you are rich or poor, Love does not care if you are blue/brown/black/green/haze eyed,
What does love care is what is in your heart, what does love care is what is in your soul, what does love care is what is in your mind, by me