Genital Herpes Poll
Posted on Jun 02, 2007 at 09:31 PM
I recently Had drinks with someone I met on Millionaire for the first time. During our conversation, he thoughtfully mentioned that he has Genital Herpes. He wanted to know if that was a "deal breaker". I said "yes". We talked a little longer...he is a great guy....and agreed to be friends.
Exactly when should you tell someone that you have genital herpes?
To be told during the:
Millionaire Profile Phase
Emailing each other Phase
The Telephone conversation phase
The First or Second Date Phase
Just before things are heating up to have phase
Here's My answer to him
...People come with all sorts of temperaments and opinions. I don't know that mine is very reliable as a gage because I walk to the beat of my own drummer.
I never feel like meeting and making a new friend is a waste of my time. Call it cliche but I think everyone adds something to my life. Getting mugged wouldn't be so hot, but barring those kinds of experiences.....I think the golden rule holds true. I've been around long enough on this earth to have personal experience with the fact that if you put good out there in the universe, good comes back to you. And that you can never have too many friends.
If you had told me on the phone, I would have told you how I feel, and then I never would have met you. Who knows how each of our lives could change as a result of having taken the time to get to know each other? I'm an optimist.
Lot's of other girls are going to be totally pissed off at you for "wasting their time". And others will be happy because they have Herpes too! Maybe a few will be like me. I don't know what the right answer is for you.
I do know that you are an honest man. And you have one of those great personalities that makes you instantly likable! I am sure you are a great lover, and large in the.....passion department.
What is YOUR Opinion on this??????