I recently Had drinks with someone I met on Millionaire for the first time. During our conversation, he thoughtfully mentioned that he has Genital Herpes. He wanted to know if that was a "deal breaker". I said "yes". We talked a little longer...he is a great guy....and agreed to be friends.
Exactly when should you tell someone that you have genital herpes?
To be told during the:
Millionaire Profile Phase
Emailing each other Phase
The Telephone conversation phase
The First or Second Date Phase
Just before things are heating up to have phase
Here's My answer to him
...People come with all sorts of temperaments and opinions. I don't know that mine is very reliable as a gage because I walk to the beat of my own drummer.
I never feel like meeting and making a new friend is a waste of my time. Call it cliche but I think everyone adds something to my life. Getting mugged wouldn't be so hot, but barring those kinds of experiences.....I think the golden rule holds true. I've been around long enough on this earth to have personal experience with the fact that if you put good out there in the universe, good comes back to you. And that you can never have too many friends.
If you had told me on the phone, I would have told you how I feel, and then I never would have met you. Who knows how each of our lives could change as a result of having taken the time to get to know each other? I'm an optimist.
Lot's of other girls are going to be totally pissed off at you for "wasting their time". And others will be happy because they have Herpes too! Maybe a few will be like me. I don't know what the right answer is for you.
I do know that you are an honest man. And you have one of those great personalities that makes you instantly likable! I am sure you are a great lover, and large in the.....passion department.
What is YOUR Opinion on this??????
My Fashion Prayer for guys my age being hopelessly out of fashion. Not that fashion is Everything...but it's not Nothing either!
Guys over 45...untuck your shirts. Just do that and you will look so much better. Tucked in shirts on men have been completely out of style for about 10 years now!
Only tuck in your shirt if you are wearing a suit.
And another thing...your HAIR. It doesn't have to be a 1980's Princeton helmet. Let your barber do a conservative hair cut with a contemporary edge. Just ask for that and wear it for a while. Hair always grows back in about 3 weeks if you don't like it. And you won't look out of place in a corporate meeting. You will just look a LOT better than you used to.
And guys over 45. Don't try to dye your own hair to cover the gray. Get it done by a professional.
I know I look like the cute girl next door. But I've been single and dating in the Dallas are for about 7 years now. And it has a way of making one cynical.
I hope this doesn't sound too negative or cynical. Just truthful. Wish it were funnier.
Here on the internet we can create unblemished personalities. And then we present ourselves to kindred souls.
And when my identity becomes unsatisfying...or when a realtionship becomes unsatisfying...I can quickly discard people. Picking up new friends at a whim.
The price is...to me..a way of hiding and supressing the parts of me that are faulty. I never have to look at myself and say...this part of me needs to change. I could improve this about me.
Drag me into shallow water before I get to deep.
What do the words Wild, Sexy, Breasts and Popsicles all have in common?
I don't know either...but if you've had enough Mojitos....this punchline MIGHT be funny!
I don't know either but there is an Oklahoma trailer involved!