Why is it you can go for long periods of time without meeting someone you want to date and then wham...all of a sudden you meet two guys with a week that you want to spend time with? One guy is hot looking, great body a few years older than me and has a normal job. The other guy is twelve years older than me, average looking, a few extra pounds but is a sweetheart, owns a company and is fairly wealthy. I could see myself getting into a relationship with either one of them but I can't juggle both of them for very long since both have said they would like to see me more often instead of just casually dating. Any advice?