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Okay . . . Who am I attracting ?
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03/10/10
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First of all, I want to send warm regards to my many , many, fans and people that I correspond with, and the people who regularly send me hello's and letters from around the world just to say
" hello " sometimes, and simply dropping by. I have been asking myself a question recently that makes me want to take it to the airwaves. I value your opinions generally, and some of you have given me awesome advise, and inspiring stories. In the past I wasn't much of a dater, many of you that I have shared a wink or two with or just email, we have become friends , without dating, which is really funny, just because of my inactivity in the site. Who am I attracting ? Is the question of the hour. While many of you invest tedious hours in contacting, steadily, some how I don't think we share the similiar interest that one would possess on both sides to move forward. I would appreciate dearly if someone soughts after me with such esteem, that they need know, what they are seeking, while I am not looking to waste time or send mixed messages, giving the fact that we are all adults, so if someone wants to contact me to get back at me for some prior time that I may have spoken with you and never dated you, please move along. As I mentioned in my previous blog, in the past I guess I wasn't quite ready to date, and with great consideration for all of whom I may have spoken with, by not dating you, not wanting to start something that my heart or mind would not be into. So for that I did not date. I appreciate all of you, men and women , that have been understanding and stayed in touch and just was wonderful throughout that period, you know who you are . . . .
I only urge that, if someone contacts me, be realistic, I am seeking a genuine chemistry with who I meet, via friendship or otherwise. I am seeking ONLY someone that is honest, friendly, sincere, and a great guy. Thats it , thats all. So with that said, I hope all of your days and evnings are going well, and Can't wait to hear back from you.
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The Holidays Have Passed . . . . NOW WHAT ?
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01/07/10
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Well, the end of the year has come and gone as the beginning of the New Year approached. I enjoyed Xmas and a beautiful Xmas tree with my two children. It was amazing , I think I got a touchdown repeatedly this year between the two of them. This was the first year I managed to get several things that they liked /wanted. Instead of things that they weren't that thrilled with. And New Years Eve was great, I went to this really great Restaurant with 10 of my best of friends and we just had a blast before and after the ball dropped. There was a really great band.I went to Clyde's if anyone is familiar with it. The day after I reflected on the fact of Marriage. I swear, the thought was LITERALLY out the blue. But the thought was in the past tense, it was like I was summing things up in my mind, lol lol . No really, at the moment I was recalling the " perks " of being married. And when I say " perks " , I'm giving it a different meaning by describing it as : " the things that we miss " from Marriage. I recall every holiday being a big deal, or just being great, every night, every day , every event was just great, over the top at times because you are together. Part of you despised single life because the family atmosphere was so much greater,fulfilling. FOR THOSE THAT HAVE BEEN MARRIED BEFORE YOU UNDERSTAND . . . . . I have been divorcved for two years and I am not grieving the marriage itself, but I think I miss the perks. Some people want to be married because they just do. So from that stand point they may not understand what I mean. But for those who have been married, you have to feel when I say , I miss the consistancy of that team mate, that partner, always around. Someone to be strategic with about the household, about life. You know . . . ?
And now some of you wonder if I am looking for marriage ? No I am not. But if it happens then it happens. I was just recalling being in a relationship, marriage, attachment to another human being. So now I meet people all the time, through work , through travel on vacation or just to and from home. Yet its generally business related, or plotonic, hopefully I spelled that right, lol. There was a time when after my divorce, I thought I would just break-out because I had been really lonely throughout the end of my marriage, we started a family and then we had grew apart. Contrary to what I thought I would be like afterwards, I found that if I met someone I was never available, or was making myself unavailable. I had thrown myself into work and of course when you divorce, if you have children, then in way , you are a single parent. Even though my ex-husband get the kids every weekend , and the whole summer, well most of it. And I have a wonderful babysitter who is reliable, and the kids love her. I thought I would go on a date and date I guess. But I didn't . I would give my phone number here and there if I met a guy and they would call, and I never went out with them .
So then I thought that I might try web dating, because I figured that : atlease you know more about the person before you go out with them. And guess what, sometimes I had great chemistry and I still didn't date. I recently went on 3 dates in 2 months. Honestly. Lol. They were really great guys, and most of all I enjoyed it. So I assume that I'm not paranoid about dating anymore. I'm interested in dating.
Where did all this come from right ? Total Left-Field !!!! lol
Happy New Years !!!!!
Cheers to a Great Date . . . salute
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