Why most people have the need to play games
why can't they just mean what they say
for example why when they will meet
someone for the first time as in a date,
they suddenly hate the black (their favorite color)
because the other one mentioned he (she) loves blue
what's wrong with this people ??
Why can't they just stick with black
That's when all start wrong
They start with little lies about themselves
and because they are desperate to make
it work they keep adding stupid lies like that
and big ones follow in the process
WHAT A SHAME!
and then they wonder why it went sour ?!
WAKE UP PEOPLE !!!
You can't get something real
if you don't present the truth right away
The other one must embrace your good and bad
if they wanna be with you
there is no such a thing as perfection !!
There is nothing more exciting
and stimulating than the process
of learning and trying to become a better person
and have someone by your side
who really understands what commitment means
and is up to the roller coaster of life itself
IT IS PRICELESS !
I am far from perfect and
I want someone in my life who does understand
that it takes two REAL PEOPLE
to conquer REAL LOVE !
We can grow old with our best friend
if we live a lie...
It will get you lonely and faking...
so go ahead and tell it like it is !
BE WHO YOU WANNA BE...
Recently I overheard a Father and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure.
Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the Father said, 'I love you, and I wish you enough.'
The daughter replied, 'Dad, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Dad.'
They kissed and the daughter left. The Father walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there I could see he wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking, 'Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?'
'Yes, I have,' I replied. 'Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?'.
'I am old, and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is - the next trip back will be for my funeral,' he said.
'When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough.' May I ask what that means?'
He began to smile. 'That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone...' He paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail, and he smiled even more. 'When we said, 'I wish you enough,' we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them.' Then turning toward me, he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory.
I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.
I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess..
I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.
He then began to cry and walked away.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them; but then an entire life to forget them.
TAKE TIME TO LIVE
TAKE TIME TO LOVE
Blowing up some words in his direction
day by day she sits and wonders
if he can fall and can read her at all
if he will like the way she walks
the way she talks...
the touch of her hand
if he can find in her body the smell he urges for
and make that his daily addiction
she hopes he is strong enough to hold her hand
but not her freedom
just make her feel safe and protected from the rain
from the stormy brain
she is willing to love his bad, whatever it might be
she knows reality with him will feel like a dream
if they let this love flow , this feeling grow
she ask herself when he will be brave
never bend to any fear
turn on the gear...make sooner than next year
she keeps blowing some hints...
I have been telling
to many guys the same thing
when they come and tell me
my ex was crazy...
that's when I say:
Didn't you guys figure it out
by now that
ALL WOMEN ARE CRAZY
there is no such a thing
as a normal woman...
we are hormonals
we have babies
we deal with men's ego
we obsess about two extra pounds
when it is really half a pound
we bleed every month
we breastfeed babies and adults
so there you have it !
To leave your ex because she is crazy
is exchange six for half of dozen !
BUT remember we crazy women
have what makes you happy
and if we do it well our craziness
it is soooo worth it !
the truth is relationships
are hard to keep up for many years
it is hard work ,
devotion , understanding
meeting half way sometimes.
Are you guys doing your part
or just playing victims ?
I use to say normal people
are not exciting people..
you know and I know
that the crazy ones are the ones
with crazy sex...THAT YOU LOVE IT !
so SHUT UP AND DANCE
This friday make mad love
with your crazy woman
and call the ordinary one
to talk about the new car
that you want so bad...
that's just how it goes...
What if today was the last day of your life?
Have you experience all that you want ?
What would it be missing ?
Have you forgave the ones that tried to hurt you?
The ones that were jealous of you ?
Have you said you love to all the ones you do ?
Have you helped as much as you can ?
Did you get to see most places you wanted ?
Most importantly what would you do
that you can but haven't done yet because
you think you will live much longer ?
Do you have many or any regrets ?
I got myself thinking about all this
and I am planing on keep living like I do
Like there is no tomorrow !
Not taking life for grant and
(my favorite part of all ),
learn everyday something new !
Whatever I feel I still didn't do
or didn't get done it will happen soon
because that's just how I am.
I don't sit and wait for things to happen !
As for love...HE WILL FIND ME !
I rather don't hurry in this special subject
but when it happens
I wanna make sure he knows everyday
How much he means to me and that I love him !
Life is our biggest gift from God !
Lets remember to love ourselves ,
celebrate every minute , every second...
because WE CAN!
so it doesn't get any better than that
does it ?
I have been thinking , projecting
about 2010 , the year that I am calling
the beginning of the rest of my life
and why is that ?
Because I can just
smell that will make
my dream come through
My heart will melt again
I will feel vulnerable and hopeless
my legs will get weak
I will not hesitate
not wait or overthink
I will not be scared or second guess
my body language will
give it up what I want
I will be all that you want me to be
I will dance for you , strip for you
take you to a places that you never been before
and when I am done , you will be asking for more
Once we look into each other's eyes
it will be it !!!
we will make passionate love
we will get addicted and happy
we will want to compromise
we will desire to dive deep
we will always communicate
we will never go to bed mad at each other
we will walk hand by hand
we will hear our hearts beating together
same rhythm , all in sync
we will undress each others fears
and once we get naked and free
we will experience the best feeling ever
and we will celebrate life forever
because we will wanna say I do
we know true love is hard to find
and this is what we have.
Time to leave the past behind !
2010 will bring me to YOU as well
get your guard down and
let your soul succumb the spell
For now have patience
smell this feeling
and just know the next chapter
we will write together ...
TO BE CONTINUED....
I heard some stories about women
that post pictures 10 years younger...
what are they thinking ???
Would they tape all over their bodies
for the first date...??
This is ridiculous !
Or even worst pictures 20 pounds lighter...
than what to do ??
I wonder what they say
when they get to face
the guy on their first date
"sorry I am kind of bloated
I am on my period " ?!
so last night I had 2 burgers
3 french fries and the whole ice cream
and I woke up like this...
you are bloated alright !
And how the guy suppose to react ?!
"Oh hun I understand ,
lets meet when the 20 pounds of blood
leaves your body " !!!
We know men are visual so
if you don't feel good the way you look ,
either don't post picture
and be ready for not much action (emails)
or get a make over before doing it
but please NO old pictures !!
For the other hand, remember
not all guys like skinny ones
embrace who you are !!
As for the guys...
the ones who take good care of themselves
can be a great catch or a pain in the ass
I feel that the ones who are all cut and hot
TEND ( I said tend) to be very superficial
and I must say , it turns me off
and will not last more than 3 emails...
or two chats with me.
The regular looking guys
in my experience are more
in touch with things that really matters in life !
Beauty will fade for all of us !
We gotta have more than that !
we gotta be more than that !
Successful men that go for what they want
and make thing happen when they want
and who are not afraid of living to the fullest
THEY TURN ME ON !
I have a similar personality
risk taker , romantic and follow my intuition.
I would do anything or go anywhere
if I feel it can be THE ONE ...!
Today make sure you say what you want
and DO WHAT YOU SAY...
You might be surprise with the outcome...
TO BE CONTINUED...
Oh man this is a fun subject
Let me start by saying ,
I am not implying that women
don't do things like the ones I will
talk about now...
But I am writing as a woman
so it will be my tips for the guys !
A lot of them are so clueless
It makes me wonder from which planet
they come from...
what's up with that attitude saying :
"Have no baggage please"
Are you a man over 30 ?
and you consider yourself
with no baggage ??
I find this very weird already !
At a certain point of our life
we carry that , sometimes big
sometimes medium and
some smart people small ones.
Let's face it , we all had some
drama in our life ,
it might be created by us ,
by others or both .
what we learn from it
makes difference on the size
of the baggage we carry .
Second thing people like to
post about themselves
I am 40 but look like 18 ...
( turns me off right away )
ARE YOU FREAKIN KIDDING ME ???
If I wanted an 18 I wouldn't be chacking out your profile !!
Didn't you post any recent pictures
that should go without saying it
are you that immature and insecure ?
Talking about pictures....
Don't write me saying
I don't take much pictures
HELLO THIS IS A DATING SITE ONLINE
Get a camera a take some shots
if this is a lot for you to do
then don't waste my time
I am not interested !
Also you guys want us to have
recent pictures (fair enough)
but then you post pictures
of Paris , house , cars
WAKE UP I WILL NOT F... YOUR CAR!
I wanna see YOU !
A closer head shot no sunglasses,
body shot in jeans or something like that
no fuzzy ones from miles away...
For the ones without pictures alone ,
if you wanna post pictures around people
grab a taxi driver , a kid
family members or animals
but never ever other hot chics
also the ones that just came out of high school
Don't get me wrong I dig hot chics
but if I am looking for the man of my life
or a simple boyfriend to start with
I don't think you would be my pick
I wonder what makes you
think that those pictures will drag me to you
Would you appreciate
if it was the other way around ?
I didn't think so ! So get a gripe !
If you are ONLY looking for fun
than go for it ! Post your face between
some hot twins( if you know what I mean)
and gold diggers will fill your inbox !
Way to go playboy ! Enjoy it !
Now the "rich" ones that
can't write you an email and
only wink at you because
they are not members...
either you are not serious about it
or you are a broke ass so
spare me to read that you
are successful and own your home
I am not buying it !
Profiles very short
no more than 20 words
and very incomplete...
Again HELLO this is internet
as you , we wanna know as much
as we can about you
so we decide if there is a
potential date there or not !
Then I save the best for last
this is the worst for me
male , 52 years old searching
for female from 25 to 48...
So are you telling me that
you would date your daughter's
best friend...creepy !!!
You look desperate to me
and lost so I click
You all have a wonderful
time , good luck
and remember to be REAL
We appreciate that !
We latin people tend to be jealous
or better possessive
we are always trying to
control our men (or women)
This is soooo waste of time and energy
so stoneage mentality
if someone wants to cheat on you
it takes only 5 minutes away to kiss
10 , 20 for a quicky
men and women will do whatever
they want regardless
I decided that I am not
in this world to own anyone
I wanna love someone not own !
This doesn't even sound right
well maybe during sex..hehe
let's face it ..
it is hot when someone say :
you are all mine !
Part of our dreamy personality
loves that and soap opera lol
Back to reality
people have to go to bed (to sleep this time lol)
and have a good night sleep
knowing that they were
honest to their mate.
It shouldn't be a problem
if you really love and respect
your partner and best friend
I believe in Karma so should you...
let people live the way they feel it is right
the only thing we really OWN
it is our own body and an option
to be a descent human being
that understands how important
it is this thing called FEELINGS
Don't give to just anyone
make sure it goes to someone
who will protect that
not play with that...
I only want one good man
that's all it takes to make me happy
Jealousy takes a lot from us !
Invest in other feelings that will
make you feel much better
like respect , admiration and love !
Oh and before I forget
If you know what you are about
love and respect yourself
it should be easy to trust
and if someone doesn't appreciate you enough
to be faithful than it is not worth your time or energy
move on...YOU DESERVE THE REAL DEAL !
I got to meet some sucessfull people
we could call them millionaires
men looking for love
missing the woman of their dreams
the last one bla bla bla
but as I talked to them about it
I came to realize that
they are not ready because
they don't have the time
to have a real woman
Why do I know that ?
Because I am one of them
A real woman is demanding
of appreciation because
she brings everything or at least
a lot of things you have been
A real woman will take care
of her man because
she loves him and he treats her
as he should
Guys keep it in mind
the more we feel appreciated
the honier we get
at least works for me
is that so hard to get ?
I am not saying you shouldn't work
I am saying you should work TOO
Stop worrying about being right
focus in being happy
and I have two last questions
for the super busy guys
Does your work walk
around naked in the house
and get you off as much
as you both want?
Does your work
puts a smile on your face
sending you hot text messages
during the day
and naked pictures
to your cel ?
I didn't think so
So get your priorities
straight before you
come approach me