Why is it alot of men (not all) refuse to date someone who has kids already? Are you all worried we want a "dad" fpr them? Well in my case I have 3 kids of my own and I am raising another one. I am not looking for a dad for them as they have a great father.
I am looking for a decent guy not a father for my kids. I don't wanteither. Just a decent guy..........Is there any left? Someone who will accept the fact I have kids? Accept the fact I still speak to my kids dad and that we are friends?
I'm not angry I just don't understand why our love isn't goos enough for some guys because we have kids.